The only place you actually need to be right now is exactly where you are. As humans, we want to have answers, because answers bring security and survival. Answers and plans make us feel safe. Don Delfin Espino We dont like to just not know. We dont like being in limbo. I am here to tell you to breathe. This is your reminder that its okay to not have it all figured out right now....

Think about the things that you thought were important back then. For me, I thought it was so cool that he could skateboard and play the guitar. What other qualities could a girl need for the rest of eternity, right? Pixabay Truthfully, 12-year-old me didnt know anything about what would actually be important years later. Now, think about that same person. Could you actually see yourself building a forever with them?...

You cant put into words how painful it will be to lose them. You feel hollow, and weak, like you cant trust yourself to keep standing. You feel an emptiness that you know will stay with you long after this goodbye. Daria Shevstova All of the love you shared sends electric currents through your skin. All you want to do is hold onto this moment forever. You want to pause time while they are still them, and you are still you....

Choose to heal piece by piece. The process may not be easy. It may take days, months, or even years, but choose to get it through. Ester Marie Doysabas By Updated 4 years ago,January 11, 2021 Choose to heal; choose it every day. Choose to take that first step away. Choose to heal piece by piece. The process may not be easy. It may take days, months, or even years, but choose to get it through....

Take back the power from your ex and recognize your role in what happened. Perhaps you are telling yourself that you are the victim in all of this. Let me explain why. Brooke Cagle I couldnt believe that my marriage of 18 years was over. And, believe me, the instinct to curl up in a ball and give up was strong. And to be honest, I did for a while....

Today, she wants to change the way you think about being Poz. Her insight on living apositivelife pun intended aims to show people that HIV isnt what many assume it is. Leigh received her positive diagnosis in 2016, the day after Valentines Day. They sent me to an infectious disease doctor, who tested me for everything including HIV. But it didnt cross my mind that it could actually be that....

Ive come to realize that the qualities that make for exceptional, stand-the-test-of-time partners are incredibly overlooked. By Updated 5 years ago,March 6, 2020 I feel like I have this burning secret. So much so that I worry they wouldnt even rank in peoples top five. Devon Divine So I want to bring these qualities to the forefront. I want to put them in the beaming, warm spotlight they deserve. Because finding a life partner is complicated....

Remembering this is both heartbreaking, and freeing. Sometimes, we seek out goodness in people who we need to believe are good. Sometimes, we confuse someones potential for their reality. Alina Vilchenko The context of our relationship with a person explains so much about our perception of them. Your brain is a choice-supportive mechanism. This is important to remember when youre really stuck on a person. We get stuck because we start to see people one-dimensionally....

This is a great time to reflect and meditate if possible. Taurus We kickstart the month of March with Venus comfortable in the sign of Taurus. You will radiate magic and magic will follow you throughout this period if you allow it. Alina Vilchenko Bulls should not be intimidated because you all are stubborn and courageous in your own right. Things will appear to be smooth sailing as you are brought back to home and family....

Taurus: Spring will be a pivot time for a change. Taurus: April 20th May 20th Spring will be a pivot time for a change. Armed with your new determination and drive to succeed, you will make the progress you need. Alina Vilchenko Dont forget to set aside some time for relaxation as well. Gemini: May 21st June 20th Spring will be a time of focus and rationality. There may be some practical concerns that are constantly at the back of your mind....

If your ex reaches out to you, know that the universe is testing you. The world works in mysterious ways and the universe can send you both blessings and curses. So when its time for Mercury to go into Retrograde, get ready for whatever it throws your way. Photo by Jonathan Borba on Unsplash For about two weeks, a few times a year, sh*t hits the fan. Thats when we have a chance to fix things....

The closure that I was chasing for years. I finally got it and it was a lot simpler than what I had in mind. Because the real essence of closure iswithinyou, its not what you get or hear from others. Alina Vilchenko The real closure is you making peace with unfinished endings and unanswered questions and people who hurt you. The real closure comes when youre not looking for it....

I once asked this literary agent what writing paid the best, and he said, ‘ransom notes.’ 1.Since Ive become a full-time freelancer, Ive made quite a few sales. My car, my house, my clothes… 2.What punch in of blood does a proofreader have? Mike Von 3.Excited by a friends first story sale, one asks what shes going to buy with the money. I dont know, a candy bar? 4.What do you get when you cross a writer with a deadline?...