You feel alone in your relationship.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 6, 2017
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You dont see a future with him.
Courtney Clayton
What he wants for his future and what you want for yourself are not the same.
Both of you are growing and wanting to go in different directions.
And you know better not to prioritize someones dreams over yours.
You feel alone in your relationship.
You feel trapped whenever youre beside him.
Its like you dont know who you are anymore because he keeps asking you to change for him.
Courtney Clayton
A lot of times, you dont feel understood, appreciated, or accepted.
Youve been crying lately because of him.
He tells you to just relax and avoid making small issues a big deal.
He doesnt care about the fact that youre so crushed and broken on the inside.
You argue with each other often.
A lot of times, you get irritated with each other.
You point fingers against one another when something goes wrong in your relationship.
Nobody wants to apologize anymore.
Nobody likes to lose in an argument.
His pride is bigger than his love for you.
And hes no longer afraid to lash out painful words in front of you.
You easily become suspicious.
you’re able to sense that hes beginning to be careful when hes talking to you.
You confront him about it, but he keeps on dodging the bullet.
You miss being single.
Suddenly, you crave for freedom and you miss being on your own.
You wonder if staying single is better than sharing your world with someone else.
You are beginning to notice a stagnancy in your conversations with him.
You dont talk about important things with each other anymore.
You have this sinking feeling that hes becoming a stranger to you.
He yawns when youre in the middle of telling him about your week.
You caught him looking at a picture of his ex.
You make a run at convince yourself that maybe he just accidentally opened a photograph of his ex.
But you wonder why his expression was soft while he was staring at it.
You have inkling that maybe he still has feelings for her.
Maybe hes not really that into you.
And maybe its time for you to end your connection with him.
Your friends dont like him.
Sometimes people who are close to you know whats ultimately best for you.
And theres no harm in listening and acknowledging their thoughts and opinions sometimes.
You are not excited to see him anymore.
Your heart doesnt beat faster when you see him approaching you.
His smile doesnt bring butterflies to your stomach.
And no romantic gesture of his can change the fact that youre not in love with him anymore.
Your special feelings for him have faded and hes no longer the reason for your happiness.
