Youre a different person with different people.
No, not all men are assholes.
No, not all women are sluts, bitches, whatever.
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Sure, some of that can be true to a certain degreebuta lot of your issues are self-inflicted.
Without further ago, here are 10 ways youre sabotaging yourself in dating:
1.
Youre Obsessive
Youre too much You love too hard Whatever.
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Youre Still Hung Up On Someone
This is pretty self-explanatory.
You Hate Being Alone
Yeah, being lonely sucksbut thats not an inevitable constant when youre single.
for be in a healthy, functional relationshipyou need to be okay with doing things alone.
If you dont enjoy spending time with yourself, why should anyone else?
Learn to be self-sufficient enough not to count on other people to solve your issues for you.
Your loneliness is no one elses problem but your ownso figure out why youre lonely, and fix it.
Thats completely up to you.
But keep in mind:youre stuck with yourself no matter whatsingle or not.
Not all relationships are meant to last, so take them as they go.
Stop putting added pressure onto your prospects to be anything more than they are.
Youre Not Genuine
Youre a different person with different people.
Learn to be the person you want to be, and if people dont like itthats not your problem.
Dont be the person that only tells others what they want to hear.
Learn to be unapologetic for who you are.
Youll attract the right people, and repel the wrong ones.
Lets pretend that you only date people your height or taller.
One day, you meet someone who is a couple inches shorter than youbut is insanely cool.
No, I dont care that the newest season ofStranger ThingsorOrangeIs The New Blackwas released.
Theyre allowed to have their preferences, too.
Hold yourself up to the same standards you hold everyone else to, and stop being a hypocrite.
You Play Games
Say it with me:Dating is not psychological warfare.
Now, say it again.
Now, one more time for good measure.
You Want Too Much, Too Soon
This ties into the first point.
Take a step back.How well do youactuallyknow this person?Probably not very well.
Take the person for who they are, and keep learning.If a future happensgreat!
If not, that doesnt make your time spent meaningless.
There is nothing sexier than confidence.
