If you are looking to be exclusive and they are not, that is a fundamental incompatibility.
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Updated 5 years ago,April 24, 2020
Dating is complicated.
It can be hard to distinguish right from wrong when it comes to matters of the heart.
Here are 10 red flags to look out for when entering into a relationship.
They wont commit to you in the way you want.
If you are looking to be exclusive and they are not, that is a fundamental incompatibility.
On the flip side, they want a commitment too soon.
There is a balance when it comes to these sorts of matters.
More successful relationships are usually a slow burn rather than having an all or nothing mentality.
They arent treating you very well.
This is a sign of abuse and manipulation, not love.
They bring you down.
Maybe they dont support your dreams and goals.
It is not something that a healthy or supportive partner would do.
You cant see a future with them.
Healthy relationships grow and build in strength over time.
Toxic relationships get stuck in cycles where issues go unresolved.
You cant trust them.
Trust takes time to be built.
It takes a lot of vulnerability to trust another person.
you’ve got the option to usually tell if a person is trustworthy or not.
You dont like or get along with their friends.
This is important because you are going to be potentially spending a lot of time with these people.
You arent attracted to them.
It doesnt feel right.
Ultimately, this is the biggest indicator.
If something feels off, thats because it probably is.
Not every relationship is destined to make it.
