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Updated 7 years ago,February 23, 2018
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Listen to her when shes talking about how she wants to learn French and see Paris.
Listen to her when she tells you how she got that scar on her elbow.
If shes saying it, you care.
Dont make promises you know you cant keep.
Dont tell her youll do things you have no real intention of doing.
She doesnt want to prepare herself for hurt and disappointment, so dont hurt and disappoint her.
Make her feel like she matters.
When you wake up in the morning lean over to kiss her before you check your instagram or snapchat.
Nicole Harrington
Make her feel like shes one of the most important things in your life, because she truly is.
Her love should come before all of that nonsense.
Your encouragement actually means the world to her because it lets her know you believe she can do anything.
Whatever she sets her mind to, assure her she can do it.
Let her know her dreams wont always just be dreams.
Dont make her feel selfish and dont play victim like youre being neglected.
Support her through her dreams.
Be there when she needs you.
Make her a PB&J when shes been locked in her office all day and only eaten almonds.
Make her flash cards when she has huge exam the next day.
Support her because you want her to have everything shes always dreamed of having.
Youll never get what you want out of your relationship by being distant.
Share your feelings, dont just listen to hers.
She wants vulnerability to point in both directions.
Dont agree with her just to like her.
She doesnt want you to always agree, she wants you to be real.
If you dont like something say it.
Dont hide your feelings to avoid conflict, make them known to address the conflict and resolve it.
Sometimes the truth hurts, but honesty is where trust grows and continues to grow.
Be honest about your feelings and your actions.
Dont lie about where you were, or what you did.
Shes not stupid, so dont let your lies make her feel like she is.
Accept her for who she really is, all flaws, quirks, and weird eccentricities included.
Dont make her feel like she has to change to be loved by you.
Love her as she is and motivate her to be the person she wants to be.
