Analyze your friendships in 2020.
Friendships are meant to bring us joy - not judgment, anger or resentment.
Theres always so much hope for a new beginning.
@zoeyjean
Today is your new beginning.
Today can be your fresh start.
3.You do not need to belittle your beliefs anymore.
When you disagree with someone, thats okay.
You dont have to cater to someone elses identity if youre forging your own.
You have opinions, goals, and past experiences.
Let the world know!
4.Dont take ownership for everything.
Case and point: I started feeling guilty for not visiting my dad for nearly a month.
But, he has a car.
He chose not to prioritize visiting me just as I chose not to prioritize visiting him.
5.Analyze your friendships in 2020.
Friendships are meant to bring us joy not judgment, anger or resentment.
6.I hope you start to value your time more.
So much of our time is exploited by obligation.
But, you do not have to manage them by anyone elses expectations.
Your trauma is not their trauma, so dont compare.
If you want this upcoming year to mean anything, then start working on your goals tonight.
Write one sentence, one lyric.
Do one Google search for how to get started.
9.Dont fall into the trap of stereotypical New Years resolutions.
A new year isnt about joining a gym or learning a new craft or trying to say fuck less.
We thrive off planning,not doing.What brings you happiness?
Who are you with when youre at your MOST creative?
What city do you keep thinking about when someone asks you where youd like to move?
And stop putting it on hold for dumb reasons, like losing weight and learning to speak another language.
Thats not really what you want and you know it.
10.If you have to make excuses for a guy or justify that hes just not into labels, DUMP.
You will find love.
Even if that love has to first be found within oneself.
