Most people fail to appreciate the gravity of choosing a partner.
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Updated 5 years ago,March 25, 2020
Relationships are hard work.
Anyone whos been in a relationship for more than six months knows this.
Chermiti Mohamed
Theres plenty of advice out there that youve heard at least 100 times.
However, there are probably a few things youve either never heard of or youve forgotten about.
One of these forgotten items might make a huge difference in your relationship.
Consider these relationship rules:
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Choosing a partner is a serious matter.
Most people fail to appreciate the gravity of choosing a partner.
This is especially true when it comes to marriage.
Consider the amount of time and energy a partner requires.
Now, consider the damage done to your life by divorce.
Make your decision with care.
Learn from your past.
Look back on your past relationships for guidance in your current and future relationships.
What do you want to change about yourself to be more successful in the future in your love life?
What bang out of people are you regularly attracted to?
Do you have a key in?
Is it a pop in thats good for you?
What does your relationship past suggest?
What were the challenges in your past relationships?
What can you do to avoid them in the future?
Are you better equipped to deal with those challenges if they happen again?
It takes years to REALLY know someone.
Be careful about jumping in with both feet.
Theres more there than it’s possible for you to learn in just a year or two.
No one can read your mind.
Avoid saying the classic, I shouldnt have to tell you whats wrong.
Take responsibility for helping others to satisfy your needs.
It only makes sense to make it as easy as possible for someone else to make you happy.
No one can fulfill all of your needs.
There is no person that can satisfy every need you have.
Youre going to have to rely on yourself and others to pick up the slack.
No single person is a one-stop solution to your life.
No one is perfect.
If you want someone perfect, youre either going to be disappointed or alone.
Youll have to accept some flaws in your partner.
If youve chosen the right person, their positive qualities will far outweigh their bad.
Avoid getting into a relationship to solve your problems.
A relationship shouldnt be based on solving your challenges.
Get your life under control before getting involved with someone else.
Its hard to take back unkind words and actions.
Think before you speak.
Your partners friends and family matter.
Your relationship will suffer if you treat them badly or attempt to avoid them altogether.
Always remember to treat your partner like theyre the most important person in your life.
Because they may well be.
The day-to-day grind can cause us to forget to treat our partner well.
This is a mistake!
Show your love in your thoughts, words, and actions.
Even when you disagree, make your opinion known in a loving and respectful fashion.
Neglecting your relationship can have catastrophic consequences.Relationships require monitoring and maintenance to survive and thrive.
Dust off these forgotten tips and put them to good use.
Your relationship will be stronger and more satisfying for both of you.
