Theres no need to rush.
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Updated 4 years ago,August 9, 2021
1.
Get to know who you really are.
Start asking yourself what you really want.
venture to imagine the ideal life for you.
And then make it as your goal to arrive in that dream destination of yours.
Its easier to navigate life when you know exactly the desires of your heart.
The only person who gets to decide about which journey you should be trekking on is you.
Not the society or anyone in your life.
Youre the one who truly understands yourself.
So pay attention to what your gut is telling you.
Theres no need to rush.
Youre probably not going to reach your highest peak in two to three years.
And theres no reason for you to freak out about it.
The universe isnt being unfair to you when this happens.
Where you are right now isnt where youll end up.
Theres a chance that you will be in a company that you dont like.
Working in a place that doesnt ignite sparks in you will make you feel crappy.
You will question your decisions.
It will be a hell of an experience.
But remember that where you are in this moment isnt where youll be forever.
Something out of your control will happen.
And next thing you know, your feet will land somewhere better.
Youre not supposed to have it all figured out.
You dont have to feel guilty if you dont have a step-by-step plan in achieving your goals.
Because you have no way of obtaining a concrete idea about what tomorrow is going to look like.
Worrying so much about the things that are yet to happen will only slow you down.
Dont let your insecurities bug you.
Comparing yourself against someone who has years of experience is pointless.
Remember that you are just starting out.
you oughta focus all your attention to yourself and stop measuring your achievements through someone elses standards.
We are all different.
Your definition of success might not be the same as the other person next to you.
Work with people who nourish you.
They will be your guide when you suddenly feel confused about the path that youre taking.
Its great to do everything on your own.
But the truth is that you will be needing help too sometimes.
Study the lives of successful people.
Learning doesnt stop just because you already finished college.
Study the techniques that theyve used to help them get to where they are right now.
And venture to incorporate them in your work ethic.
You will be surprised to uncover a huge improvement in the way you deal adversities in your career.
One big bad decision will not haunt you forever.
You will be overly emotional once in a while.
You will hate yourself for not dedicating extra time before coming up with a decision.
But just so you know, youre not the only one who goes through these dilemmas.
Everyone of us has limitations.
Nobody is really strong all the time.People get tired.And making one huge mistake will not kill you.
Just keep moving forward.
The thing about him was that he didnt know how to sugar coat words.
Hed blatantly tell me what he liked and didnt like about my outputs.
At the end of his email though, hed always write:Lets keep moving forward.
And that advice stuck with me ever since.
But what we forget is that downfalls are part of our lives.
What important is that we stand back up and keep going forward after each failure.
It is okay to be silly with the people that you love and trust.
Never ever deprive yourself the chance to experience and feel the things that truly matter on this earth.
