I honestly believe all women would benefit greatly if they learned how to date like men do.
A friend asked me the other day how my dating life was going.
I replied:Its going great
She gave me that confused look and said:Why?
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How do you do it?
What do you mean?
My response:I date like a man.
That is not what I mean at all.
I am still dating.
I am still learning.
However, watching the way men date and behave has helped me greatly in my dating life.
For us women we tend to fantasize on what it could be.
I honestly believe all women would benefit greatly if they learned how to date like men do.
Here are 10 ways to successfully date like a man to land the man you want.
If it works out, good, if not, thats okay too.
This can lead you to Hurts-ville.
Keep in mind that when youre dating, you are not tied to anyone.
Keep your options open, date around and dont be afraid to test the waters numerous times.
At the same time, youre also increasing your chances of finding the man that is right for you.
Dont chase
You rarely run into a man who wants or is willing to chase a woman.
When you meet a man that isnt interested in you, let him go.
Theres no point in chasing him all around to get him to like or want you.
Chasing after a man only makes you seem desperate, and that is not attractive at all.
Avoid Drama
Men dont like drama, and they will avoid it at all costs.
Drama and the dating world dont go well together.
Drama isnt attractive, nor does it pave a good path for successful dating.
Avoid drama at all costs, if you want to attract a good man.
Keep a light heart and dont expect to fall in love with every man that you meet.
Staying lighthearted keeps dating fun and enjoyable, which is the whole purpose of dating.
Dont invest your heart until you know that your feelings are being reciprocated.
When you go on dates, you should know right away if that man is worth holding or folding.
Keep a clear list of what you want and need in a man and work with it.
Dont keep a man around if he isnt what you want.
This is when women want to go full throttle, wanting it all (relationship and title) overnight.
Most men are still in the process of finding out their career path and where they want to go.
Most men will not commit until they are ready.
Most men wont commit until they are sure whether they want you or not.
Do not rush, get to know the man, let the process happen naturally.
Take things slow and take your time to really get to know the men that you are dating.
Trust me, the world will keep spinning around whether you have a man or not.
Dont force it
Dating is about getting to know men.
If things dont flow naturally, its because its not meant to be.
Be private
Men are very private about their personal business, they keep a lot of things to themselves.
Women on the other hand, we dont hold things in.
Its okay to vent from time to time.
But we need to learn to tone this tendency down.
verify to keep your life as private as possible, not everyone needs to know your every move.
Remember a private life is a happy life.
Do your own thing
Men love to be free and do whatever they just.
You should do the same.Never make a man the center of your world.
Never make dating a TOP priority.
Men love doing their own thing, and they love a woman who does her own thing even more.
Instead of worrying why he isnt calling, texting or making plans for a date.
Having a life of your own will make you even more attractive to men.
An independent, busy woman is an intriguing woman.
So, get out there, have fun anddate like a man.
