Dont settle for any less than what you deserve.
Dont ignore red flags early on.
Your intuition is there for a reason, you feel things for a reason.
Yoann Boyer
Its easy to get blinded by someone, especially at the early stages of dating.
Dont settle for any less than what you deserve.
And I dont mean small differences.
Sure he likes football, you like tennis.
Thats not a reason to not give things a go.
Im talking about the way they treat you, the way they talk to you.
Do they make you feel special?
Or do they make you feel small?
Do they support you when you are low?
Or do they make you feel like youre overreacting?
All of these things are crucial when finding the right person for you.
Is it love, or is it lust?
Love and lust are two completely different things.
If you might find someone who meets both, they are probably the one for you.
Sometimes we get caught up in the physical attraction to someone, and we easily mistake it for love.
Yeah, get out, its not love.
Are they in your story?
Everyone has a story, right?
When you were younger, did you imagine the perfect fairytale ending?
It could have been a celebrity or a crush from school.
No love is the same.
Theres no black and white path to love.
Theres no right or wrong, and there are no two people who are the same.
Pressure can lead you to play it safe and stick with someone for the wrong reasons.
Because I met someone traveling almost two years ago.
We spent three weeks together but it felt like three years, and I knew Id fallen.
I pined for him, cried over him and my heart fell truly empty without his presence.
One and a half years later, we met again, and the feeling was stronger than ever.
The truth is, our timing was bad then, but it doesnt mean itll be like that forever.
Just like yours will.
7. you’re able to be happier.
No one is perfect, and you will always find someone who doesnt necessarily tick all the boxes.
But you might find someone who ticks a few less but brings out the best in you.
Dont feel bad about breaking a few hearts.
Tough pill to swallow, huh?
Of course, breaking someones heart is not pleasant, and I dont wish it upon anyone.
But this ties into not settling for less.
You know when you know.
I never believed in this saying, because I thought True love was just a myth.
Intense eye contact and goose pimples when you look away.
Every time you kiss and let go, you are desperate for another.
Dont give up, OK?
It can take months and even years to find the perfect partner.
I was single for three years before I fell in love again, and it was hard.
I dated many, many people.
And yet no one fit the cut like the first time I fell in love.
I thought I was broken, emotionless, I truly thought I was incapable of falling in love.
But it happens when the timing is right.
Remember, love isnt black and white, and no story has the same ending.
Trust your intuition, trust your timing, and trust love to guide you to the right person.
You will get there in the end,dont give up.
