We all wantlove; we all want a partner to share our lives with.
We continue to live life in the same way and hope that it will somehow lead to different results.
Being singleisnt a curse and being in a relationship isnt a cure-all.
Its about identifying faulty patterns and thought processes that may be blocking you from getting what you want.
I have written many articles anda bookon how to get the relationship you want.
There are also ways to guarantee that youneverget what you want.
Seeing what they are is the first step in correcting the problem.
And with that, here are ten ways to stay single forever:
1.
Dont ever learn from your mistakes.
Blame your singleness on the fact that there are no good men left.
It is statistically impossible for every normal guy on the planet to be unavailable.
Have really high expectations…and justify it by saying this is what you deserve.
Dont trust how he feels about you.
Assume hes going to dump you, he wont call you back, he wont commit, etc.
5.Overanalyze everything.
Analyze his texts, the things he said, his posture, the language he used.
When you overanalyze, you arent being present or authentic.
What are you trying to protect and how can you release whatever fear is driving you?
Dont take care of yourself and have a go at look your best.
Attraction works differently for men and women.
A woman can develop an attraction to a man because of his internal qualities.
You shouldnt take care of yourself just to get or keep a man.
Dont deal with your issues.
Most of us have been hurt in the past, be it a painful childhood or a painful breakup.
Its important to remember that issues dont resolve themselvesyou have to put forth some effort.
Being in a happy, healthy relationship entails being your best self.
Settle for meantime relationships.
If you want a certain kind of relationship, then date guys who want the same thing.
Its so obvious, yet somehow not.
Be afraid youll never find better.
Panic over the prospect of being single forever.
Sometimes the panic and anxiety oozing out of my single friends is so palpable I almost feel like overwhelmed.
