Sometimes, it can be difficult to discern whether or not someone is truly into you.
When youre the only one reaching out.
If you constantly have to reach out to them.
Samson Katt
If they are vague or wont address/admit to feelings.
A lot of maybe in the future statements.
Feeling insecure in the relationship is a huge sign.
Sometimes the best thing is to pull back and see what they will do.
If you dont constantly extend yourself, will they reach out?
Will they plan dates?
Secondly, set boundaries.
This can be really hard.
It is hard to do that but you oughta.
Dont give in and continue being led on.
Be very upfront about what your expectations are and what you want.
When they switch up their behavior constantly.
Periods of heavy involvement followed by near-ghosting.
Once he realized I would put up with it, things started to get heated.
It got to the point where I was desperate just to hear from him on those near-ghosting weeks.
The biggest thing to look out for is them seeming to keep you at an arms-length.
Another thing is them not wanting to go out on an actual romantic date.
When their actions and words contradict.
Actions dont match words.
Ive learned my lesson.
People will tell you anything to keep you around for their benefit.
Their actions tell the true story.
I dump them once it is clear their intentions dont match mine.
When something feels off.
When in doubt I ask what his intentions are, usually I can tell by his answer.
When I was younger and a little insecure I chose to look the other way for the attention.
Now I say my goodbyes and move on.
When they refuse to define what you are to them.
They dont clearly define what you are to them and refuse to do so when asked for clarification.
He would only give vague answers or completely stonewall me.
Define expectations early; dont settle for opaque answers when you know what you want.
If you think they are stringing you along, they probably are.
If you think someone is stringing you along, they probably are.
You deal with it by leaving that person.
If they fail to communicate consistently.
Lack of texts, communication.
Not making solid plans to hangout and see you frequently.
If they alternate between being involved and avoiding you.
Best way to deal with it is to just block them from everything and move on.
As someone else has already mentioned- if they wanted to they would!
If youre confused about whether or not theyre leading you on, they always are.
If youre wondering, the answer is yes.
They always have some kind of excuse.
They always have an excuse.
I go with my gut feeling, my instincts all the time.
Our instincts never lie.
Theyre more reliable than most guys out there.
