Something is up, you dont want to admit it, but you know it.
I get flooded with desperate questions from women wanting to know if their guy is losing interest.
I know what a miserable feeling this is … and what a confusing one!
Cameron Stow
And its pretty hard not to take it personally, which just makes everything worse.
Why wont he come out and tell you hes losing interest?
Because interest doesnt usually flip on and off like a light switch.
Its more like a dimmer…it steadily fades to black.
While his words may not be telling you much, his behavior speaks volumes.
He doesnt ask you as many questions
When we like someone, we cant get enough.
Were curious, inquisitive, and we want to know everything.
He doesnt light up anymore
I have a guy friend who seemed to be destined for permanent bachelorhood.
Even if weve been out every night that week, I still get excited every time.
Its as simple as that.
When we like someone, we light up around them.
When our fire is beginning to wane, we dont have that same level of enthusiasm.
Women do the same thing.
It wasnt because I was pressed for time, it was because I genuinely didnt care!
Hes not responsive
Hedoesnt text backor gives you cold, one-word responses.
But if he isnt responsive over textandin general seems totally indifferent toward you, thats a different story.
He isnt forthcoming with you about his plans or what he wants.
Basically, talking to him always feels like a struggle.
He would rather drive you crazy and get you to break up with him.
When he does these things, he may be intentionally trying to push you away.
He may also get annoyed by you easily.
Maybe habits he used to find adorable now drive him nuts.
No initiative
Hell reply when you reach out, but he doesnt initiate.
On top of that, he just seems to slack off in the relationship.
There are no nice dates and advance planning.
There is no effort, just bare minimum.
The more effort he put into winning her over, the more invested he becomes in her.
If he isnt putting in any effort, it means he doesnt really care to keep her around.
No sex
Sex is essentially a barometer for the relationship.
Maybe he tells you hes been busy, but he hasnt been busy.
Hes being shady
I really hate this word but it gets the point across!
Hes just weird around you and something feels off and uncomfortable.
Now there is a palpable strain in the air that you cant ignore.
If he continues toshut you outmore and more, its because hes making his exit from the relationship.
You just know
Deep down, you already know the truth.
Our guts are powerful tools, and they have access to a lot more information than we do.
Our guts can access things in our subconscious awareness and pick up on subtleties.
Dont beat yourself up or take this personally.
I know it feels personal, but it really isnt.
Not everyone can be a matchfor everyone else…and we wouldnt want it to be that easy.
The hard is what makes it worth it in the end.
There is a light at the end, remember that and just keep going.
Keep working on yourself, keep growing, keep building your inner strength and quality of character.
Do these things and love will be effortless.
In Summary…
These are the biggest signs hes losing interest in you:
