Youre actually trying to escape from yourself, not the place where you live.
Little do you know, your everyday behavior could show whether you love yourself or vice versa.
Here are 10 subtle signs that actually you hate yourself and you oughta change immediately.
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Youre being obsessed with social media.
When you hate yourself, you will always need approval and validation from others.
Realize that you dont need people to like your post if you like yourself enough in the real life.
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You have trouble accepting compliments.
Its hard for you to believe that you are at all worthy of compliments.
Thus, no matter how many people give you compliments, you wont believe them.
When they give you compliments, you insecurely question them and feel like they dont mean it.
Youre too self-critical and it kills your self-esteem.
You always put extra effort towards fit in.
When you love yourself enough, you wont even care about impressions.
You take other peoples criticisms personally.
You dont believe in compliments, but you take other peoples critiques too seriously.
You care too much about what people say.
You compare yourself to others.
For you, the grass is always greener on the other side.
Youre afraid to fall in love.
Falling in love is something scary because its very hard for you to be vulnerable with others.
You dont want them to realize that you are not perfect because you cant even fully accept yourself.
It makes you close your heart from experiencing love.
You do regularly pity yourself.
When you hate yourself, self-pity will become a daily habit.
You enjoy being sad and you complain a lot about your life.
Youre afraid of having big dreams.
Because you dont believe that you’re free to achieve them.
You always look down on yourself and it makes you afraid to go beyond your comfort zone.
You hate the possibility of rejection and failure because those would make you feel worthless.
Thus, you always hide in your shell and avoid those opportunities.
Youre too hard on yourself.
Its hard for you to forgive yourself and you will always blame yourself.
You care too much about other peoples approval, and put that weight on your own shoulders.
Youre incredibly cynical about your surroundings.
When you hate everything about yourself, you will hate the world you live in too.
Youre actually trying to escape from yourself, not the place where you live.
As cliche as it is, hey remember that if you cant love yourself enough, who will?
