Lying when people ask you if you need help.
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Updated 8 years ago,August 24, 2017
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Going over through old photographs of you and your ex.
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You shake your head and unable to believe how quick people change.
Refusing to go out with your friends.
You barely go out of your home because youre scared that you might accidentally see your ex.
Its the most convenient way for you to heal.
Lying when people ask you if you need help.
You keep telling people that youre fine and theres nothing they should worry about.
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But from the bottom of your heart, you know thats a lie.
You dont want them to give you some advice about how you should find someone else.
Listening to the playlist you and your ex adored before.
You lay in your bed and listen to the songs that you and your ex used to love.
You close your eyes and recall the memories that you had with him or her.
You sing the lyrics in your mind and feel the meaning behind them.
Checking your exs life on social media.
You dont have the heart to unfriend your ex online.
In a way, youre still curious about how he or she is doing.
You still want to be connected and stay updated in each others life.
you’re able to start all over again without any resentment towards each other.
Having the urge to call your ex in the middle of the night.
But the thought still haunts you every so often.
Becoming a little bit distrusting.
Somehow you believe that everyone who comes into your life will eventually leave.
You see everything as temporary.
Getting jealous when you learn that your ex is dating again.
Your ears turn red when you heard the news that your ex is dating someone new.
You wonder how he or she could forget you so easily.
Your initial reaction is that you feel betrayed.
Overeating (or other compulsive behaviors).
Youve been craving so many foods since the day your ex broke up with you.
Some of your friends notice that youre gaining some weight, but you just shrug off their observations.
Your vices bring happiness in your life and you dont want to take that away from you.
You dont want to deprive yourself with something that gives you so much comfort.
Crying over sad movie endings.
Youre not crying because youre watching alone.
Youre crying because the ending of the movie you just watched reminds you of your previous relationship.
