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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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There is no timeline to finding love.
The process of building a partnership is a lifelong process that continues after marriage.
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Ghosting
Its not difficult to send a clear text to someone and be honest about your disinterest in them.
Rejecting someone is more daunting than being rejected because of the uncertainty of the other persons response.
However, being clear on how you feel is kinder than leading someone by leaving them on read.
Their response to you rejecting them is not your responsibility.
It will give them the freedom and clarity to move on and continue their dating journey.
Finding someone to complete you
No one can complete you when youve always been whole just as you are.
You are enough, worthy, and beautiful with or without a partner around your arm.
Its okay to learn about what works for you by the process of dating multiple people.
This is what dating is.
Not being clear about what kind of relationship you want
If you want a relationship, make it clear.
If you want something casual, make it clear.
If you want a long-term relationship, make it clear.
Be honest and unapologetic about the pop in of relationship you want and communicate it.
This prevents the messy world of almost relationships.
Being selective is creating standards for yourself.
Its a way of creating boundaries with yourself so you dont overlook red flags.
Shaming dating apps
The most convenient way to meet someone is through a dating app.
This belief also closes your heart up to meeting someone that can prove you otherwise.
Secure and healthy relationships can heal the parts of ourselves we once labeled as broken.
