What is it that you are dreaming about?
Go ahead and give it a try!
Sometimes people who find themselves without a partner start becoming overly anxious, even panicky about their status.
Max Felner
Will I ever find the love of my life?
and Am I doomed to being single?
can be daunting questions that paralyze those asking them.
It doesnt have to be this way!
Being single can actually be an opportunity to reconnect with yourself and use this time to your advantage.
Take it easy and dont panic!
Being single is just a stage.
The fact that you are single now doesnt mean that you are going to be single forever.
So take it easy, relax, and make the most of it.
Allow yourself to be OK without being with someone else.
Meet new people, reconnect with old friends.
Invest in quality and enjoy connecting with others.
Treat being single as an opportunity to get to know yourself better
Really!
Being by yourself is a great opportunity to gain some self-knowledge.
Start by asking the most important question; do you like yourself?
Do you enjoy spending time with yourself?
If the answer to the above is no, then you should probably reconsider.
Cater to your needs
What makes you smile?
What makes you happy?
What are you passionate about?
Listen to your gut; what are your needs?
What things are important to you?
Maybe they arent as significant to someone else, but thats not the point.
Now its your time to be you, to cater to your needs and get a sense of self-satisfaction.
This way you wont feel that you need someone else to make you happy or whole.
Dare to do something different, something meaningful.
Go out there and learn something new.
Invest in meeting new people
Being single is a great opportunity to expand your social circle.
Stop commiserating with your friends about problems and difficulties.
Meet new people preferably individuals you share the same interests and start hanging out with them too.
Start loving your body all over again!
Accept it and if there are things that need to be improved, work on them.
Start walking, or hit the gym or the swimming pool.
Invest in moving and choosing healthy eating options.
Refuel your body with positive energy through movement and nourishment.
Listen to your inner dialogue
What are you saying to yourself when engaged in your inner dialogue?
Do you talk to yourself the way you would to a small child or to your best friend?
Or do you tend to trash-talk to yourself, insulting and putting down your precious self?
Learn to talk to yourself gently, in an honest, realistic, and encouraging manner.
What are the things, big or small, you are grateful for?
Shift your perspective and count your blessings.
Feeling grateful is just a simple yet powerful way to feel happy again.
Make a course of action, commit to it, and follow through.
Savor the success of meeting your goal!
It doesnt have to be this way!
What is it that you are dreaming about?
Go ahead and give it a try!
