Here are ten things people with high self-esteem do differently in their relationships:
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Confident women dont analyze if he likes them they assume he does.
People with high self-esteem believe they are worthy of love and dont question how someone feels about them.
Brandon Stanciell
Confident people realize if a relationship falls apart its because it wasnt right.
Not because they did something wrong.Not everyone is a match and sometimes, two people are just incompatible.
This doesnt make either of them flawed or bad sometimes its just not there.
Confident women dont take it personally when a guy doesnt want a romantic relationship.
When a girl is insecure, however, and a guy leaves, she spirals.
She may obsess, analyze, and replay every interaction in an attempt to uncover what she did wrong.
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Confident women set healthy boundaries.
Healthy personal boundaries and high self-esteem go hand in hand.
Confident people dont abandon parts of themselves to get to have a relationship.
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Confident women trust themselves and the decisions they make.
They act on how they feel and are comfortable being their true, authentic selves.
Confident women dont show off or talk themselves up.
Confident people dont need to tell the world how great they are.
When you feel that you are worthy, you dont need to tell people…they just know.
A big mistake insecure women make in the early stages of dating is selling themselves to a guy.
This can be completely innocent, but it comes from a deeper sense of insecurity and inadequacy.
Confident women accept responsibility.
Confident people accept responsibility for their actions and emotions.
They realize that their time is their responsibility.
As a result, they dont wait around in dead-end relationships, hoping something will magically change.
And they dont blame their exes for wasting their time.
Confident women take the relationship for what it is and dont need it to be a certain way.
Confident people feel secure in their relationships.
They dont need to have a title or a ring as some sort of confirmation that the guy cares.
If a guy cant commit in the way they want, then theyll move on.
They just know that if its right, it will work out.
And if its not right, theyll move on.
Confident women dont stay in bad relationships.
Confident people do not stay in relationships where they dont feel respected, appreciated, and valued.
The can quickly see when a situation is damaging and will remove themselves immediately.
When you learn to value yourself, you will weed out anyone who doesnt truly value you.
Confident women dont desperately seek reassurance.
People with high self-esteem know they are loved and lovable.
They dont need a guy to remind them every day its just something they feel and know.
You blame him for making you feel insecure in the relationship, or unloved.
The fact is, if you dont feel good about yourself, nothing he does will ever be enough.
Confident women choose wisely.
Confident people use their head and heart when choosing a romantic partner.
A core concept to understand when it comes to relationships is like attracts like.
Meaning, a confident person will attract another confident person.
An insecure person will unconsciously seek out relationships with men who will make them feel more insecure.
They will want the unavailable guys, the guys who cant commit, the guys who have walls up.
These are the ones they will feel infatuated by, not the ones who show real, genuine interest.
This never, ever works.
Instead, she just ends up compromising her integrity even further by chasing the relationship.
If you dont value yourself, then you will always be attracted to people who dont value you either.
Confident people value and accept themselves for who they are.
They embrace the good, and are accepting of the not-so-good.
