Stop acting like “fairness” has anything to do with it and seek justice instead.
Its never too late to start over, but its also great to give yourself a head start.
Stop hanging out with people you dont like.
Start accepting your own company is sufficient.
In fact…
2.
Stop dropping good people because theyre not cool enough.
Start attracting the kind of friends who will look out for you.
Being cool is overrated, and easy.
Being genuine, honest, and loyal?
That takes guts, because it usually means spending copious amounts of time on your own.
Stop acting like fairness has anything to do with it and seek justice instead.
The older you get, the more often you will encounter situations that are wrong.
One choice means abdicating all responsibility and waiting passively.
The other means taking charge and trying to make a difference.
Which kind of person would you like to be in your 30s?
Stop settlingyou deserve better.
See point 3 for more clarification.
You think its only fair that the people in your life use and abuse you?
Life is not fair.
Do yourself a favor and find people who will speed up the process your older self will thank you.
Stop destroying yourself with excesses and start listening to your body.
When does a good time turn into a bad one?
Stop putting off necessary things.
Stop treating money as a big, confusing thing.
Get to know it instead.
Be the person who knows how to apologize.
You know what you did wrong.
Learn to take responsibility, apologize, and make amends, so that you input your 30s with confidence.
Stop taking the blame when its not yours to handle.
You deserve to have some boundaries.
Recognizing what blame is yours and what isnt takes practice.
That doesnt mean, however, that you should apologize for everything just in case its your fault.
Stop waiting for people to change.
Be the change you want to see.
It helps you make decisions when to stay in someones life and when to walk away.
It keeps your mind healthy and your boundaries strong.
Its a good building block for happiness at any age.
