She is used to toxic relationships, so when you enter her life, she might be suspicious.
She might think that you are too good to be true.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 20, 2017
1.She is not going to trust you at first.
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It doesnt matter what you do, because it is not about you.
It is about her and what she has been through in the past.
Her last relationship made her skeptical.
It turned her into a pessimist.
It made her wonder if love always ends in heartache.
2.It is going to take her a while to open up to you.
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She wont want to go into detail about her childhood or her parents or her darkest fears.
She wont want to whisper secrets into the air until she is sure that you are there to stay.
3.She is used to toxic relationships, so when you enter her life, she might be suspicious.
She might think that you aretoo good to be true.
Being treated well is new to her.
Its something that she is going to have to get used to over time.
4.She is going to become uncomfortable if you make a run at move too fast.
She will want to take her time to confirm that she isnt making another huge mistake in love.
5.She probably wont flattered by typical romance.
Receiving a bouquet of flowers or a sparkly ring might just make her laugh.
It will mean more to her if you keep your promises.
If you stick by her side when it matters.
If you show her you love her with your sweet actions instead of just buying her stuff.
6.She might not want to get married orhave children.
But that doesnt mean she isnt serious about you.
7.No matter how much she loves you, she probably has a backup plan.
Extra money stored away and a place she can crash if you break up.
Its not that she is expecting your relationship to fail.
She is just prepared for the possibility.
8.She will have moments of insecurity, when she wonders if she is cut out for a real relationship.
If she deserves all of the love that you are giving her.
Of course, she realizes that punishing you for what her ex did is uncalled for.
So if she really loves and trusts you, shell try hard to stop it from happening again.
Shell double-check she doesnt confuse your behavior with her exs behavior.
Unless she honestly believes that you two have what it takes to last forever.
So dont let her down.
Dont screw her over again.
