Shes going to expect the worst.
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Updated 8 years ago,May 25, 2017
1.
She needs you to put in effort.
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She needs reassurance that you still want her, that you still love her.
Otherwise shell think shes losing you.
She isnt going to accept your compliments.
When you tell her she looks beautiful, shes going to shake her head.
Dont take it personally.
Its not that she thinks youre a liar.
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She just doesnt believe that shes pretty.
Its going to take her a while to get used to your compliments.
Shes going to pretend shes fine when she isnt at all.
She wont want to bother you with her problems, because she doesnt want to feel like a burden.
So shell hide her feelings inside.
Shell play the part of the girl she thinks you want her to be.
But there will also be days when she complains nonstop.
She probably doesnt even want you to make a run at solve her problems.
She just wants you to listen.
Shes going to expect the worst.
Its because she cant understand how a person like you would stay with a person like her.
Its because she cant wrap her mind around the fact that shes found someone who wants her.
She needs some space.
Shes secretly worried youll leave her, which is why she doesnt want to get overly attached to you.
Shes going to keep her guard up.
She wont want to rush into a relationship.
Youre not magically going to make her life complete.
Dont venture to save her.
Even if you do everything right, you cant expect her to suddenly be happy with her life.
Theres more to her world than you.
You cant fix everything.
Shes going to feel like she doesnt deserve you.
She thinks youre better off without her.
That you deserve better than someone like her.
She just wants you to be happy and she doesnt want to hold you back from that.
She may hate herself but she doesnt have any real reason to.
Shes a beautiful, talented, intelligent girl who has a bright future in front of her.
Shes the whole package.
Anyone would be lucky to have her.
