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Updated 3 months ago,February 9, 2025
Consistent.
You deserve a partner who treats you well consistently.
Not only when hes sober.
John Schnobrich
Not only when he wants something.
But every single moment he spends with you.
The right person for you will be reliable and trustworthy.
Theyll get in bad moods from time to time, but theyll never feel like a total stranger.
Theyll never turn into someone you dont recognize.
A good partner knows how to balance their social life with their career, their family with their friends.
They will set aside enough time for you, but they wont neglect their other responsibilities in the process.
Theyll strike the perfect balance so that their world feels full.
Clear-headed.A good partner wont scream and curse at you when theyre upset.
Theyre able to manage their temper.
Even though you might get into disagreements, theyll never make you feel uncomfortable or frightened.
Theyll never use violence, threats, or insults to get their way.
Observant.A good partner will pay close attention to your tone and behaviors.
Hell sense when you’re gonna wanna sit down and have a serious talk.
Flexible.A good partner is able to roll with the punches.
After all, nothing ever goes as planned.
Vulnerable.A good partner will open up to you about their deepest emotions.
They arent going to hide anything from you.
They are going to share all of their secrets because they trust you with their heart.
They put their feelings out in the open because they know you arent going to judge them.
Loyal.A good partner wont stray from the relationship.
They wont be tempted to betray you with anyone else.
Theyll stay faithful because they would never want to hurt you.
They would never want to be the reason why you cry.
Compassionate.A good partner will care about your feelings, thoughts, and opinions.
Theyll be understanding of your situation and venture to see things from your point of view.
Even if they dont agree with you, theyll be there for you.
Theyll listen whenever you want to talk.
Authentic.A good partner will be honest and straightforward with you.
They will tell you the truth, even when its hard to hear.
They wont lie to impress you either.
Theyll be unabashedly themselves.
They will treat you as a priority, not a backup plan or inconvenience.
Theyll care about your happiness as much as their own.
