Dating is an enlivening and fulfilling experience that, even in itself, is worthy of some serious enthusiasm.
Approach it like the adventure it is and allow yourself to feel the excitement of anticipation.
Of course you are out there, in the world at large.
Claude Piché
But, are you out there with the right intentions for romance?
Mindset is everything and this is most evident when youre striving to kick a goal or achieve a dream.
Being positive, proactive and enthusiastic helps, right?
The dating mindset is no different.
you better break free from a preconditioned, victim-like mentality for attract the outcome you want.
This means jumping in with both feet, ready to hit the ground running.
Claude Piché
You dont prioritize dating.
You might feel like youre putting in a bit of effort and thats all you might do.
But, its a lukewarm approach, so what pop in of results can you expect?
Dating is an enlivening and fulfilling experience that, even in itself, is worthy of some serious enthusiasm.
Approach it like the adventure it is and allow yourself to feel the excitement of anticipation.
You man-bash with your friends.
Its not something you probably want to admit, but everyones been there, at one time or another.
Man-bashing is very different from discussing important issues, with the view of improving or letting go of relationships.
Just admitting it to yourself can give you the kick you should probably prioritise your own dating life.
The same applies when youre holding on to past relationships and any hurt you may have experienced.
No one asks about your love life.
Think about your recent conversations with friends, family and co-workers.
Has anyone asked you questions about your love life?
Thats ok. Now that you know, you could switch your mindset and get back in on the action.
You dont make an effort with your appearance.
Perhaps you feel insecure?
Regardless, its not really even about trying to look good.
You would never consider approaching a man you like.
Do you see guys you like and wish theyd approach you?
Why not take the reins and let them know youve got your eye on them?
Keep it simple and see where it takes you chances are, youll be happily surprised.
You avoid letting yourself be vulnerable.
Change your perspective about dating to view it as a tool to help you understand vulnerability.
Youll start to feel more comfortable expressing yourself and itll be easier to let go of past issues.
You reminisce about the past too much.
Holding on to negative ones however, by way of constantly referencing them, keeps those situations alive.
Let them go and get ready to feel the delicious anticipation of creating new ones.
You wont admit you want a relationship.
The thing is, once you admit it at least to yourself doors will automatically open.
You spend too much time immersed in other peoples love lives.
You dont try because youre afraid.
The best things in life come from trial, error and a good dose of exciting challenges.
Dating is no exception.
It doesnt need to be an easy ride and Prince Charming doesnt have to show up right away.
It simply means putting effort into proactively dating and feeling enthusiasm for the fun process.
