You could go for days without talking with them and you would be fine.

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Updated 4 years ago,December 17, 2020

I dated the wrong one for over two years.

What started out as a random fleeting attraction soon became a full-blown relationship before I could blink.

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Tim Foster

You are constantly battling.Every single thing they do irks you.

You argue over everything and anything.

Tumult and anger become the norm for you both.

FaceTime/Skype calls are nonexistent.

Your parents even comment how little you talk with them when you are home.

You fantasize about how to breakup.I used to dream about being alone and single again.

Sometimes I even daydreamed about moving away and how I could blame the relationship ending on the long distance.

Granted, I also believe that the other extremeconstant butterfliesis not healthy either.

Chemistry is not everything in a relationship.

But damn, looking back, I did not even like hanging out with him.

Some people are more private than others, but the fact that everyone thought I was single meant something.

That voice in your head is consistently getting louder, questioning if he is the one.

That pit in your stomach, knowing that you’re gonna wanna leave.

You feel like you have lost yourself.

That should send those alarm bells ringing!

I could never picture our wedding, let alone me walking down the aisle towards him.

I stayed in a relationship for far too long because I was scared.

Scared to be alone.

The best thing I ever did was walk away.

If it is not a fuck yes, then it is a hell no.

Life is too short to settle, to be with the wrong one.