Youre no longer part of the narcissists captive audience, waiting to be chosen.
Youve chosen yourself instead.
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Updated 3 years ago,January 28, 2022
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Vince Perraud
You feel little to no desire to reach out to them.
They reach an unsettling amount of indifference towards the narcissist that is both unfamiliar yet exciting.
This new indifference and neutrality are signs that you are healing and moving forward.
You have little to no inclination to respond if they reach out toyou.
Hoovering can be intense, especially if you happened todiscardor end the relationship with your abusive ex first.
You no longer look them up on social media.
You could not care less about who they areor arentdating.
You no longer compare yourself to their past or current victims.
Youre no longer part of the narcissists captive audience, waiting to be chosen.
Youve chosen yourself instead.
And those dysfunctional love triangles?
Youre living for you and being a total badass while doing it.
Now, however, you find that you have no need to perform.
Youve reached a whole new level of success professionally and personally, without them.
You now know you are worthy of all the victories life has to offer.
You have reached a whole new level of emotional liberation.
You cut ties with toxic people with much more ease and find yourself unwilling to put up with bullshit.
You validate yourself and honor your feelings.
Instead, your usual self-blame and self-criticism have been replaced byaffirming thoughtsabout your strengths and progress.
You look and feel ten times younger.
You probably experienced major changes in weight, your sleeping patterns, and your anxiety levels.
Narcissistic abuse has the potential to change you mind, body, and soul.
You dont question yourself as much as you used to.
You revel in the certainty of your own self-worth.
Theres nothing more attractive than an empowered survivor who feels their worth deep down in their bones.
Now, you cherish your beauty inside and out.
Now, you yo yourself.
Your own pleasure is your priority.
You celebrate the qualities that the narcissist tried to snuff out.
You ignite them with full force and use the crucifixion youve endured toresurrectyourself.
Youve constructively channeled your experiences for your greatest good and the greater good.
Youve used your experiences as gateways to deeper healing, catharsis and victory.
You may have even shared your story to help other survivors.
Youve used this adversity as a platform to rise even higher than before.
