You’re feeling disrespected, unappreciated, and unheard.
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Updated 2 months ago,March 4, 2025
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You keep having the same arguments over and over.
Jonathan Borba
They might apologize for their behavior, but it clearly means nothing because they keep making the same mistakes.
You arent growing and changing as a couple.
Youre simply repeating history.
You dread the thought of seeing them.
You would rather enjoy your own company than go on dates with them.
Youve stopped being affectionate with each other.
You dont feel the urge to hold their hand or give them a nice, long hug.
You would rather keep your distance, physically and emotionally.
When things in your relationship are bad, theyrereallybad.
Your partner doesnt hesitate to call you nasty names or make you feel shitty about yourself.
You feel like you havent grown since youve started dating them.
If anything, you feel like youve only become more toxic.
You arent happy with how you act when youre around them.
Youve been interested in someone new, someone you would like to explore a relationship with someday soon.
You are only staying in the relationship out of convenience.
Because youre used to dating them.
Because you cant imagine a world where you walk away.
Remember, your history isnt a reason to stay with someone if youre unhappy.
Its never too late to make a change.
Just because you were with them yesterday doesnt mean youre stuck with them tomorrow.
Youre feeling disrespected, unappreciated, and unheard.
Its one thing if your partner makes a small mistake.
Its another thing if they continue making that mistake when they know how much it hurts you.
Communication and compromise are the keys to any relationship.
If your partner wont listen to you, then whats the point of talking to them?
Your partner never apologizes for their mistakes.
They never even acknowledge that theyve done something wrong.
They venture to place the blame on everyone other than themselves, even you.
Theyre never going to mature because they refuse to register their own flaws.
You feel like youre the only one whos putting any effort into the relationship.
Your partner should be there for you when you need them.
You shouldnt be the only one providing emotional support.
They should encourage you.
They should support you.
And they should help you out whenever you need a hand.
You arent happy with them.
You dont need a good reason to break up with someone.
If theyre not right for you, then youre allowed to leave.
You shouldnt force yourself to stay in a relationship with someone because they look good on paper.
If youre not happy, then it’s crucial that you make a choice that will change that fact.
