You appreciate yourself for the imperfect, complex, and astounding being you are.

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Updated 4 years ago,March 4, 2021

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You discover that you were always whole, always complete, and never lacking on your own.

I Stopped Blaming Myself For Your Inability To Love Me

Kirill Vasilev

Searching for wholeness within yourself means that you stop relying on others to fill you or complete you.

And as you do this, you discover that you werenever lacking.

You never needed someones love to fill you, as if there were parts missing.

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You have always been, and will always be, completely whole and full on your own.

You realize the magnitude of your spirit and the strength within your skin.

Finding your wholeness means realizing how incredibly strong you are.

It means resurfacing and taking a breath of fresh air, confident and renewed.

It means acknowledging all that youve pushed through and will continue to push through, every single day.

Finding your wholeness means seeing, in a new and beautiful light, how truly astounding you are.

You realize what is truly important to you, without outside influence.

You learn that love is simply within you and that you deserve it, most importantly, from yourself.

You see that loveisyou, in every single part.

And you understand that you deserve lovefrom others yes, but most importantly, from yourself.

You place value in the things you believe in, and support those things passionately.

When your self-perception shifts, you begin to realize who you truly are and what youre truly interested in.

You start to notice what is important to you and what causes you support.

And you passionately support those things.

You understand what you cannot compromise on, and stand firm in those decisions.

As you learn your values, you learn what you cannot stand for.

You learn what causes you cant, under any circumstances, budge on.

You learn that love does not equal a sense of self or a fullnessthat fullness comes from within.

You find what drives you and spend your time in selfish pursuit of it.

Once you discover your wholeness, you realize what sets your heart on fire.

And your relationship(s) encourage and support your goals, instead of distract from them.

You discover what scares you and learn, on your own, to face those things.

Because you are, and always will be.

You learn that you are far more resilient than you think.

Realizing who you are and who you are capable of becoming teaches you that you are so incrediblystrongand resilient.

You have, and will overcome.

You appreciate yourself for the imperfect, complex, and astounding being you are.

Discovering your wholeness meansfalling in love with yourself.

It means seeing, for the first time, how incredible you are.

It means taking the time to put yourself first, to pamper yourself, and to celebrate each success.

It means giving yourself the pure, raw love youve been giving everyone else for so long.

It means seeing your worthboth body and soul.