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Updated 5 months ago,November 18, 2024
Bad relationships happen to the best of us.
Be honest with yourself.
11 Red Flags To Run From
1.
Kevin Laminto
Hes a damage case.
Adamage caseis a guy with a lot of potential buried under a pile of issues.
If only I can help him conquer his demons, then well have an amazing relationship.
This is never how these stories unfold.
If a guy needs fixing before he can become someone date-able, you gotta move along.
You want a partner, not a project.
Only a highly insecure girl will be flattered by this.
Most of the time it means he doesnt want a relationshipwith you.
So why doesnt he just dump you?
Well, he still kind of likes you.
Or until hes just really over it.
You cant make someone ready.
You cant fix or change someone else.
You cant force someone into feeling what you want them to feel.
Just accept what is and move on with your head held high.
Its all about him.
If you text him and he doesnt answer for a few hours, thats totally fine.
But if you dont answer his texts promptly, its a problem!
The relationship seems to revolve around his needs and his schedule and his time table.
Theres no room for you and what you want.
If this sounds familiar and applies to your situation, you better get away.
You dont want the same things.
Chemistry can only take you so far in order for a relationship to last, you need common values.
Everyone values different things and its important to have these conversations and get on the same page.
You cant be yourself around him.
With the right guy, you feel comfortable and at ease.
you’re able to justbe.
He doesnt prioritize you.
If you feel like youre on the back burner, its probably because youre on the back burner.
A guy will do this if hes only somewhat interested in a woman.
When a guy is in it, the woman knows.
He makes her a priority.
Hes married or in a relationship with someone else.
Ladies, these situations rarely ever work out in the other womans favor.
If hes with someone else, then you have to run, dont walk, away from this guy.
Ill say it again, these situations never, ever, ever end well!
You dont trust him.
Trust is essential for a relationship to survive.
Again, you gotta be honest with yourself.
Are you just not a trusting person in general?
Or, is he just acting shady and its not sitting right with you?
Remember, you cant have anything without trust.
He doesnt take responsibility for anything.
Youll see this come out as time goes on and the relationship is more established.
You arent responsible for the entire relationship or his emotional wellbeing.
This is not only a sign of an emotionally immature person, its also a big sign of narcissism.
You just feel it in your gut.
Dont silence that voice of reason thats desperately trying to chime in.
Listen to what she has to say because deep down, you already know the truth.
I fell in what I thought was love for the first time when I was in college.
It wasnt my paranoia, the writing was on the wall, I just didnt want to see it.
My point here is: listen to what you already know.
it’s possible for you to save yourself aworld of heartache.
In summary…
These are the signs youre dating a guy you should be running away from:
