We become incredibly attached.
Once time has passed, and we are in a committed relationship, we become attached and clingy.
Because our anxiety tells us this relationship is temporary.
Vince Perraud
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Updated 4 years ago,July 21, 2021
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It takes us time to fall in love.
We guard our own hearts like they could be taken from us any second.
We dont trust him or her right off the bat.
It takes us awhile to open up to the person we are falling for.
Because our anxiety gives us reasons to feel paranoid even if theres no reason to be.
Sometimes even if we feel it, we cant say it aloud.
To say I love you is major for us.
We only say it if we are 110% comfortable with this person.
And even then, its a scary and vulnerable moment for us.
Sometimes we ignore the topic of the future all together.
We hate talking about the future because our anxiety cant handle it.
We give a shot to ignore the topic as much as possible.
We sometimes come across as rude.
Its our way of testing their love, as crazy as it sounds.
With anxiety comes a need to be alone and to isolate ourselves.
We fear the worst.
No matter how happy we are in the relationship, our anxiety makes us think its a joke.
Anxiety makes us worry that this will all end.
We dont understand why they love us back.
We truly dont understand why or how they love us.
First dates are our nightmares.
To even begin dating is a struggle for us.
We become incredibly attached.
Once time has passed, and we are in a committed relationship, we become attached and clingy.
Because our anxiety tells us this relationship is temporary.
So we hold onto to the feeling as this person as hard as we can.
