You think too little of yourself.
You tell yourself that there is no point in pursuing him.
That he would never want to be with you anyway.
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Updated 8 years ago,September 30, 2017
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You constantly call himbuddyorpalorbro.
You never make physical contact with him.
You keep inviting him to hang out with groups instead of one-on-one.
You make him feel like afriend.
You lead him to believe that a relationship isnt on your radar.
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You are giving him all the wrong signals.
You give him zero indication that youre interested, because you dont actually flirt.
When he leans in close, you pull away.
When he makes a flirtatious comment, you switch topics.
You put down all of the other girls that he talks about.
Its not a good look.
You try too hard to makehimjealous.
That means he wont be asking you out anytime soon.
You turn the conversation sexual every chance you get.
Otherwise, hell assume that you only want him for sex.
You spendforevertrying to come up with the perfect reply to his text when you should just be yourself.
Say what first pops into your head.
Dont say what youthinkhe wants to hear, because youll probably end up guessing wrong.
You keep turning down his invitations out.
Otherwise, hes going to assume your excuses are bullshit.
That you just dont want to hang out with him.
You wait hours to text him back.
You never have quick, flirtatious, back-and-forth conversations because the time between the messages is too long.
It breaks the spell of sexual tension.
You think too little of yourself.
You tell yourself that there is no point in pursuing him.
That he would never want to be with you anyway.
