Are you more emotionally stable when youre single or in a relationship?
These questions disrupt the listeners usual ways of thinking and simultaneously uncover their true self.
However, it should be done in a time-appropriate and context-appropriate manner.
When asking loaded questions, always respect the boundaries of others.
Always be aware that a person may or may not answer honestly.
In fact, some of these are so revealing that its very possible they wont!
2.How often do you do things just for the attention?
3.Would you prefer to be manipulated or to be the manipulator?
4.What did your previous partners always tell you to domoreof?
5.What did your previous partners always tell you to dolessof?
6.Who do you look to blame when things go wrong?
7.What is the one thing people assume about you that you wish was true?
8.What is the one thing people assume about you that you wishwasnttrue?
9.When was the last time you lied to protect your image?
10.How often do you put on a happy face when youre really not feeling it?
11.When do you think you began putting your guard up so much?
12.Who made you feel most anxious when you were a kid?
13.How do you speak about others when theyre not around?
14.What aspect of your life are you most delusional about?
15.How often do you admit you were wrong?
16.Which one of your biggest flaws do you like to rationalize the most?
17.Is it your fear of commitment or your fear of intimacy that makes you shut down more?
18.At what stage of a relationship are you most likely to withdraw emotionally?
19.What is the one compliment you always get that youre too embarrassed to accept, so you deflect it?
20.What would your ex say is your worst habit?
21.What is the one insecurity youre pretty sure has some basis in reality?
22.When was the last time you felt really insecure about the parts of yourself you pretend dont exist?
23.What is the most interesting white lie youve told?
24.Do you ever feel like an imposter?
Do your friends know how competitive you are?
26.Whats the worst part about being in a relationship?
27.Whats the hardest part about dating nowadays?
28.Whats the hardest thing about being rejected?
29.How do you deal when you know youre being irrationally jealous?
30.How do you deal when you know someones not willing to give you what you want?
31.Whats the weirdest thing youve ever wanted someone to do to you in bed?
32.Are you ever afraid of people knowing who you really are?
33.If you went to a therapist today, what would they say is holding you back the most?
34.When was the last time you lowered your standards just to get someone elses approval?
35.What do you like most about being a flirt?
36.Is it fun using your sexuality to get what you want?
37.Is your need for revenge greater than your need for peace?
38.Have you stopped trying to control things yet?
39.Which parts of yourself do you still seek validation for?
40.How do you cope with being unfairly ignored?
41.Do you like punishing yourself for things that are out of your control?
42.What did your co-workers say was your biggest problem when communicating?
43.Are you okay with not knowing what happens next?
44.Will you ever feel okay with being imperfect?
45.Does sabotaging yourself give you an odd sense of comfort?
46.How do you feel about being disliked by some people?
47.Are you afraid of missing out on love because you were always looking for the next best thing?
48.Whats the strangest thing youve done just to avoid failure?
49.What is the biggest risk youve taken just to prove yourself?
50.Whats the boldest thing you do every day, just to feel like youre still in control?
51.What accusation would you defend yourself most fiercely against, even though you know its true?
52.Whats the most toxic thing about yourself you actually kind of secretly like?
53.How much do you enjoy being in control?
54.When do you give yourself permission to lose control?
55.What guilty pleasure are you currently justifying to yourself?
56.What is the most passive-aggressive way youve dealt with your rage?
57.What is the pettiest and most immature way youve avoided losing face?
58.Whats the worst habit you have that rewards you the most?
59.How do you get your needs met when youre alone?
60.Are you more emotionally stable when youre single or in a relationship?
61.What is the most ridiculous thing youve done to yo people?
62.What is the most ridiculous way youve rebelled?
63.Whats your favorite way to channel your aggression?
65.How do you cope with being betrayed?
66.How quickly do you get over an ex, even if you remain friends with them?
67.Are you okay with disliking someone?
68.What is your favorite form of self-destruction?
69.Whats the one thing you struggle most to manifest in your life?
70.Whats the one thing that you manifest so easily, people are jealous of it?
71.Whats the most irrational reason youve ever had for disliking someone?
72.Whats the most taboo fantasy youve ever had?
73.What is one fear that youd be ashamed of your friends knowing about?
74.Which one of your deepest secrets do you think is the least common?
75.Whats the most irrational reason youve liked someone?
76.How do people normally know you have a crush on them?
77.How do people normally find out you hate them?
78.What is your go-to strategy to deflect criticism, even constructive criticism?
79.How do you divert from someone calling you out on something youre afraid to own?
80.What is one thing youre afraid to own about yourself that others have already pointed out to you?
81.What is one thing people always get wrong about you?
82.What emotion motivates you the most when youre down?
83.What emotion makes you want to give up?
84.Are people shocked when you stand up for yourself?
85.How often do you say yes to the things you really want to say yes to?
86.How often do you say no to the things that make your skin crawl?
87.What shallow aspects of a person do you focus on even at the expense of seeing their true self?
88.How far are you willing to go to maintain a relationship, even an unhealthy one?
89.What is the one thing you always do not because you like it but because you want someones approval?
90.What would be the one thing youd be willing to give up just to be loved?
91.What is the worst way someones ever abandoned you?
92.What is the worst way youve ever abandoned yourself?
93.How do you entertain yourself when youre not around people?
95.What is the one trait you look for that tells you this person is compatible with you?
96.What habit do you know you could quit but dont want to?
97.What is your favorite strategy for avoiding difficult people?
98.What is your favorite strategy for avoiding conflict?
99.What is the weirdest thing that gets you angry?
100.What is the weirdest thing that makes you sad?
101.What do you love most about your sexuality?
102.What do you hate most about your sexuality?
103.What part of your sexuality do you repress the most?
104.How often do you take responsibility for other peoples crappy behavior?
105.When are you most likely to shut people out?
106.Which insecurity would shock people if they knew about it?
107.What do you find yourself justifying to people, even when no justification is needed?
108.When was the last time you tried to just someone who made you angry?
109.What do people often tell you better focus more on?
110.What do people often tell you should probably focus less on?
