No longer will I let my worth be dependent upon my relationship status.
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Updated 4 years ago,September 23, 2021
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No longer will I let my worth be dependent upon my relationship status.
Shwa Hall
Who you are as a person is not measured by how deeply you are loved.
Your uniqueness, your individuality, your value is not calculated by whether or not someone has your heart.
Stop letting your worth be dependent upon your relationships.
No longer will I settle for a soul that doesnt value me.
You are a treasure.No, youre not perfect.
No, you wont always do or say the right thing.
Shwa Hall
Dont settle for being half-loved, for an almost, for temporary.
This year, pursue someone who values you.
No longer will I waste time and energy on people who disregard me.
So dont let it be.
Dont waste your time and energy on people who dont treat you with respect and attention.
Dont throw yourself into a relationship with someone who isnt putting 100% of themselves in, too.
No longer will I put everyone elses emotions before my own.
Being selfless is a beautiful thing, but sometimes you have to learn to put yourself first, too.
Your needs are just as important as the person youre with.
Value yourself, too.
And when youre feeling a certain way, honor it.
No longer will I ignore the wild beating of my heart.
This year,listento yourself, to your mind, and most importantly, to your heart.
And be fearlessly guided by it.
No longer will I fall into people who are not ready to catch me.
Fall into arms that are ready.
Fall into a body who is confidently and excitedly waiting for you.
No longer will I tell myself I am unfit for love.
Your past doesnt make you unfit for love.
A failed relationship doesnt mean you wont ever find the one.
And just because youre still searching doesnt mean youll forever be alone.
This year, remind yourself of your worth.
No longer will I rush things that are meant to take time.
Whats meant to be will work itself out, and its true, the most beautiful things take time.
No longer will I make a run at change people who dont want to be changed.
This year, stop thinking you have the power tochange people.
People dont change unless they want to.
No longer will I let a broken relationship define who I am, or will become.
Past abuse, past broken relationships, past lovenone of those measure what will happen to you next.
None of those will determine the love you will one day find.
None of those define who you are, or will become.
No longer will I be afraid to fall, or hit it one more time.
Do not be afraid to love.
And youwilldiscover it in time.
No longer will I search for love more than I search for myself.
Love is beautiful, but it is not everything.
Pursue what makes your heart come alive.
Run, relentlessly, the direction of your dreams.
And fall in love with yourself,with your life.
