And I think it probably made me look like I was still desperately clinging on."
It would have been much more humane if we had just let ourselves let it end.
And were from the same hometown.

Arnaud Mesureur
Kathryn, 27
3.I was really passive aggressive about it for a couple months on social media.
It was four years ago and Im still embarrassed every time I think about how immature I was.
I just walked out and didnt speak to him again for two years.

If I wanted to secretly break up too, I should have never made him feel that guilty.
So, I never got the closure I needed.
Its taken me forever to move on.

Arnaud Mesureur
And I think it probably made me look like I was still desperately clinging on.
I wish I had just made the clean break with everyone in his life after he dumped me.
Patricia, 25
8.I broke up with her and felt like I made the right decision.
Ian, 29
9.We broke up at a wedding by having a huge, loud fight.
We were in a side hallway but everyone heard us.
It was my brothers wedding.
I do not recommend it.
It just dragged the whole thing out and made it way more toxic than it should have been.
It took a very, very, very long time to get my dignity back.