They won’t date until they meet someone who makes them say “hell yes”.
They dont date passively, because they are bored or lonely or just need something to do.
When youre independent, the only factor that applies is whether you really, truly love this person.
Sarah Loven
The goal here is happiness, not partnership for the sake of it.
If they get a job offer across the country, they take it if they want to.
It feels too much like asking for permission.
She still needs time alone.
She still needs space to make her own decisions, have her own dreams and pursue her goals.
She might not like being vulnerable
Shes not used to opening herself up to judgement.
Her decisions are hers, and they dont typically affect anyone else.
When she gets in a relationship and has to open up… its going to take some time.
They just want to be straightforward and tell someone when they like them.
They wont settle
A girl whos used to being on her own knows what she has to offer.
She isnt looking for someone to complete her or to fulfill some kind of fantasy.
