Deep thinkers exist because they are most in love with the worlds they can create within their minds.
When a reality they choose disrupts their fantasies, it can be traumatizing.
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Updated 5 years ago,December 19, 2019
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Sophia Sinclair
They fall in love with ideas.
Deep thinkers are obsessed with things that look beautiful and make sense.
They know that love isnt enough.
They recognize that compatibility is as essential as chemistry, but that its not an exact science.
This leads them to frequently over-analyze personality traits, patterns and behaviors with an unnecessary amount of neuroticism.
They intellectualize their feelings.
People who think deeply get their joy from… thinking deeply.
Its not always natural for them to learn to follow their hearts.
To follow their hearts, they have to trust themselves.
And trusting yourself is not a simple business.
They attract parters to fill voids.
Deep thinkers are very often wounded in some way.
They give a shot to shield themselves from potential pain by identifying ways potential partners arent quite good enough.
They overthink the obvious.
They prefer things in theory, not practice.
They fall in love with who a person is more than what they make them feel.
A deep thinker wants a because.
A deep thinker is too keenly aware to misinterpret that attraction for any real level of compatibility.
However, this leaves their pool of options smaller than most: they wont settle.
Their standards are naturally higher.
They look before they leap.
They are secretly deep feelers and deep feelers fear love as much as they long for it.
