You’re not stupid for falling for him.
You’re not stupid for staying for such a long time.
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Updated 4 years ago,May 12, 2021
1.Youre not stupid for falling for him.
Roberto Nickson
Youre not stupid for staying for such a long time.
2.Youre going to feel worse before you feel better.
Right now, you might be miserable without him.
You have to push past those feelings.
You did the right thing.
Stop second guessing yourself.
3.Its not your fault you fell for someone so toxic but that does not mean you were completely innocent.
You might want to rebuild friendships your relationship caused you to lose.
4.Closure isnt something you should expect.
Answers arent something you should expect.
5.Dont get frustrated with yourself over how long its taking you to heal.
It might take months.
It might take years.
Everyones timeline is different.
6.Even though you ended your toxic relationship, it doesnt mean the pain is over.
You are probably going to have some lingering trust issues, abandonment issues, and commitment issues.
You are going to be a different person than you were when the relationship started.
7.You might feel weak and vulnerable right now, but you are strong for leaving.
You are strong for deciding you are no longer going to put up with a disrespectful relationship.
You are strong for choosing to do what is best for your own mental health.
8.There will be people who judge you for leaving your person.
They will call you selfish for walking away after everything they have done for you.
These people have no idea what theyre talking about.
You cant let their opinions bother you.
9.Delete your ex from your phone.
Delete your ex from your social media.
And mute any mutual friends who might post pictures with your ex.
The less you see of them, the easier it will be to move on from them.
10.Just because this relationship didnt work out the way you planned, it doesnt mean all men/women are trash.
It doesnt mean youre never going to find love.
It doesnt mean youre destined to end up alone.
11.Your toxic relationship might have brought you baggage, but it also brought you a renewed strength.
It brought you countless lessons on what love is and what love should never be.
12.You dont get to change your past but you’re free to change your future.
you’re able to check that you never settle for the same key in of pain moving forward.
you’re free to see to it your standards stay high to avoid a repeat of history.
