You understand that love is hard work but you are willing to put in that work.
You dont need to be out on the town partying to enjoy their company.
2.You show your love in more ways than sex.You hold hands.
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You buy their favorite cereal without being asked.
You do the dishes when its their turn.
You introduce them to family members, friends, and coworkers.
You show them that you love them in a million different ways every single day.
You arent justtalkingabout the future you want to have together.
You are actively trying to turn that future into a reality.
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You make decisions as a team.You involve each other in the most mundane decisions.
What color tile should the new counters have?
What brand of dog food would be the healthiest for the pets?
How much detergent should be poured into the washer?
You sit down and talk things outrespectfully.
There is no name calling, no screaming, no unnecessary drama.
You split your responsibilities as evenly as you’re able to.You both make money.
You both cook and clean.
You both listen to each other.
You both surprise each other with little things whenever you’ve got the option to.
You both try hard to keep the relationship strong.
You are fully committed to each other.You arent on any dating apps.
You arent flirting with anyone at work.
You arent wondering what life would be like if you were with someone else.
You are with the only person you want to be with.
You arent letting your fears convince you to move too slow and miss out on a good thing.
Your relationship is progressing at a pace that you are both comfortable with.
You are each others rock.
10.You agree on what your future looks like.You both feel the same way about having children.
About allowing friends to stay the night.
About spending the holidays with one side of the family.
You dont let the problem fester.
You dont let your emotions build up.
You work together to come up with a compromise that will benefit both of you.
But that hasnt stopped you from putting in effort.
That hasnt stopped you from loving them with every part of your heart.
