Dealing with the wrong love has taught about whats shes actually looking for.
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Updated 6 years ago,June 2, 2019
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Shes not going to be used to being someones girlfriend.
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Shell never demand this be called something.
In the past every relationship she thought would be one shut down upon asking, what are we?
Shell let you make all the big moves and shell be a little skeptical at first.
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Not having 100% freedom is unfamiliar to her.
Shes used to her independence.
Shes terrified of something going wrong.
Maybe you notice how nervous she is meeting your family.
Or how quiet she is in the car when you take her hand.
You might look at her and it might feel like shes not there sometimes.
Every word she says she thinks twice about.
Shell never put your relationship before her friends.
Shell pull away out of fear and question you.
Shes afraid of something too good to be true.
Her past has taught her to be guarded and has really high walls.
Its up to you to counter that and be the example of someone she can trust.
Ghosts from her past will always linger.
You might notice familiar names that blow up her phone or people who give her attention.
If you ask her about them, shell be honest.
And if you treat her better youll never have anything to worry about.
Girls who have been single dont respond to jealousy well.
She wont lose herself to a relationship ever.
Shes made the mistake of making a relationship too much of a priority that she learned better.
Shes lost herself to exes and she learned never to do that again.
She might flirt with others and not even realize.
When youve been single that long you dont think too much about flirting or people hitting on you.
If anything you learn to hate it butgo along with it until their 5-second interest in you fades.
If theres one thing shes learned its too not read too much into people or their intentions.
Shell value you more than you even know.
Shell fear milestones in the relationship.
When your past is just almost relationships and unrequited love you learn to walk certain milestones alone.
You look forward to sharing things with someone one day but that one day seems far away sometimes.
She still looks at you and questions you sometimes.
Girls who have beensinglefor long periods of time expect thats what will happen soon.
Being single isnt unfamiliar.
Thats their comfort zone.
Whats pushing them out of it is commitment and relationships and labels.
Shell love you as hard as she knows how to.
