When it comes to relationships, were all in or all out.
If its a fling youre looking for, dont waste your time.
We tend to steer clear of anything casual, as we are more interested in something long-term.
Demetrius Washington
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Updated 7 years ago,August 28, 2018
INFJs arerare.
This personality bang out makes up onlyone percentof the worlds population, which means we are habitually misunderstood.
If you have an INFJ in your life, here are some things you should know.
We have no problem cutting people out of our lives.Its called the INFJ door slam.
In fact, were known for our puzzling metamorphosis from kind and caring toindifferentanddetached.
We can be warm, yet distant.
This usually happens as a result of tolerating too much and/or allowing someone to push us too far emotionally.
When weve decided weve had enough, we react accordingly and dont look back.
We tend to steer clear of anything casual, as we are more interested in something long-term.
INFJs know exactly what we want, and arent afraid to go after it.
We want to be with someone who is both our loverandfriend.
Someone with whom we can create bonds that are multidimensional.
Physically, emotionally, intellectually, mentally, and spiritually.
To put it simply, were looking for asoulmate.
Regardless, we follow and trust that feeling, because it has never led us awry.
Our preferred method of communication is written, and we tend to live in our own heads.
Imagine having 63 Google tabs open at once.Thatis what the brain of an INFJ looks like.
Our hidden talent: were chameleons.Especially INFJs who also happen to be a Pisces.
There are few people who see our real selves.
Alone time is arequirement.
Consequently, we end up feeling overwhelmed and exhausted, needing a break to recharge and regroup.
We have a fairly remarkable aptitude for absorbing everyone elses emotions, both a giftanda curse.
Were familiar with contradictionand can play the optimist/pessimist roles equally.
We are highly emotional, but maintain our ability to berational.
We love theideaof spontaneity, but also like for things to be planned out.
Were organized, but our creative tendencies often generate disorder.
We haveendlessquestions, which also means were full of insight.
Because of our minority personality bang out, were vulnerable to loneliness.
Thus, weve become accustomed to beinghighly independent individualsfollowing our own paths.
We have strong ideas and beliefs, and we remain motivated in moving toward our vision.
Unfortunately, this often leads us into one-sided relationships where we continually give support that is not reciprocated.
INFJs are highly multifaceted individuals that can be both unpredictable and challenging.
When we are committed, we take it seriously and were faithful.
INFJs are incredibly thoughtful and pay attention to thelittlethings.
Were great listeners, unbelievably supportive, and will do everything in our power to help you continually grow.
