hey don’t call us.
However, truthfully, were not antisocial or weird.
Were not particularly shy nor are we unapproachable, though we can certainly come across that way.
Zun Zun
If you have feelings for an introvert, here are 12 things you should know before falling for them.
We introverts are not very social.
We will avoid being in crowded places, and some weekends we wont want to go out at all.
Just dont give a shot to force us when we dont want to.
Wed rather communicate over text.
hey dont call us.
Avoid this unless you have a good reason for doing so.
Likewise, check that to give us a heads up so we dont send you straight to voicemail.
And when you do text us, hey skip the small talk texts we hate them.
Small talk in person is bad enough.
We want meaningful conversations.
We prefer deep, one-on-one conversations because its how we form lasting bonds with others.
Again, small talk feels like a punishment to us.
We crave depth and conversations that make us truly think.
We suck at keeping constant communication.
We could take a few hours or a whole day to reply back to your texts or phone calls.
We arent ignoring you, we just dont need constant conversation.
We have to get to know you on a deeply personal level.
What are your fears?
How did you get that scar?
Where do you see yourself in ten years?
These are the questions we like to ask.
We want to get to the nitty-gritty of who you are and know everything about you.
We need a lot of alone time.
So, if we pull away for a few days, dont take it personally.
It has nothing to do with you, and we just need to take all our attention inward.
kindly, just be patient.
We dont open up very easily.
We often keep our feelings inside, because sharing them makes us feel too vulnerable.
Thus, you have to be patient with an introvert, and just offer your love and support.
We will open up eventually, as long as you make us feel safe.
We prefer one on one quality time.
We prefer quality one-on-one time over hanging out with you in a group.
We really cherish the time you spend with us without any distractions.
We live in a fantasy world.
As introverts, we live inside our heads.
Thats our escape from the mundane everyday life.
Our escape could be playing a sport, writing, reading, or listening to music.
We often get lost in our own thoughts.
We like to take our time.
We put in a lot of thought into everything we do.
We prefer to take things slowly to understand and get comfortable with the person.
But, once we get comfortable with our feelings, there is no going back.
We will become the most romantic person youll ever meet.
Just give us time to get there.
We want to make you happy.
We know we are different and dont expect you to be just like us.
But, we will do our best to make you happy.
We want to know we are doing our part to meet your needs.
It takes us a while to commit to a relationship, but once were in, wereallin.
We have chosen you as one of the few people who see our inner self.
We will love you very deeply.
Since we love being alone, we are extremely mindful of who we spend time with.
If youre really someone special, well want you as a big part of our world.
Dating an introvert can seem a bit overwhelming at times because they approach life differently.
However, it can provide a wonderfully rewarding relationship.
Go into it with an open mind and patience youll be very glad you stuck it out.
