It’s better to be single than to get invested in someone toxic.

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Updated 5 years ago,January 19, 2020

1.You deserve to be a priority.

2.There are other guys out there.

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Guys who are willing to commit to one woman.

Guys who are sick of playing the field and want something real.

3.Its better to be single than to get invested in someone toxic.

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Someone who is only going to hurt you.

Someone who doesnt care whether or not you get what you want as long astheyget whattheywant.

Those girls arent your enemies.

Youre all going through the same thing.

Youre all dealing with the same guy.

A guy who isnt happy with only one heart, so he has to break them all.

5.Youre not stupid for falling for him.

Your heart is out of your control.

But your actions are completely within your control.

6.If hes unable to see your worth, thats on him.

It has absolutely nothing to do with you.

You didnt do anything wrong.

So dont start tearing yourself apart.

Dont spend too much time crying over a guy who would never shed a tear over you.

Stop telling yourself the way hes acting is normal for a guy his age.

Stop lying to yourself so that keep him around.

You could be using that time to search for someone better suited for you.

Or you could forget love completely and focus on your career, your health, or your friendships.

9.Youre strong enough to get over him.

Youre strong enough to walk away.

Youre strong enough to say, I deserve better than this.

10.There are going to be other guys who make you feel this way.

Other guys who give you butterflies.

Other guys who make your face light up.

This isnt your only chance at love.

This isnt the last time youre going to love someone this hard.

11.You are not the problem in this scenario.

He is the problem.

He is the one in the wrong.

He shouldnt be stringing you along like this.

He shouldnt be messing with your heart.

12.Love isnt supposed to be treated like a competition.

13.You shouldnt settle for life as a backup plan.

You deserve so much more than that.