We all want that life-changing love that makes us believe in something again.
But to get there it starts with improving the relationship you have with yourself.
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Updated 6 years ago,December 26, 2018
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Will Recinos
Someone who makes him wait.
In cards, you dont play your best card right off the bat.
Its about respecting yourself enough to hold off how much you invest and when.
Will Recinos
These little games do end just in the beginning keep a little bit of mystery to it.
The beginning of a relationship sets the foundation for which everything else is built on.
Thats why its so important to have a good relationship with yourself.
Thats why its so important to have self-respect.
How you treat yourself reflects how hell treat you.
And what you tolerate will be what continues.
When it comes to sex and waiting…
If you put out immediately hell no longer wonder what it could be like.
Someone who challenges him.
Dont be a pushover.
Dont do things just to appease him.
You have to challenge him a bit and test him to see if hes someone worth it.
You dont have to be mean or cocky.
Just be confident in yourself with or without him.
Its that confidence that will make you more attractive.
Mentally
Games end when you’ve got him.
But to get there, you cant be so easy to read.
Giving too much too soon emotionally will make him nervous and hell leave.
None of us want someone who is exactly like us.
We want someone who is going to push us out of our comfort zone.
Someone who is intelligent.
When you are intelligent its attractive.
When you know your shit about a certain subject its attractive.
When you are passionate about things its attractive.
When want tolearn and strive to improve its attractive.
Ask questions when you dont know something and verify you listen to the answers.
The best relationships will be the ones where you learn from each other.
When you are ambitious its attractive.
When you know where you are going and how you are going to get there its attractive.
Someone who takes the time to listen.
Listen more than you speak and spend less time thinking about what you are going to say next.
Make a note if you remember what he said.
Actively listen and remember the things he tells you.
Because you want him to remember things too.
Actively listening shows you have not just self-respect but respect for him.
that makes you stand out.
Someone who can hold their own.
Confidence is key in these situations and even you are nervous pretend you arent.
Someone who can teach him without belittling him.
If he doesnt know something you know, dont make him feel bad about that.
Someone who is honest with him.
There will never be a relationship if he cant trust you or you cant trust him.
People hide things when they feel guilty about something.
People hide things thinking they are protecting someone elses feelings but in reality, its childish and sneaky.
Honesty even when it hurts is key.
Tell him you ran into your ex.
Tell him so and so hit you up.
Thats a fight and a conversation it’s possible for you to easily avoid.
Someone who supports him.
He doesnt need you to be one of those people too.
He needs you to be in his corner.
He needs your confidence when hes doubtful.
He needs your strength in moments he feels weak.
Support him and his ideas and goals and amazing things happen when you believe in him.
Someone who thinks for themselves.
Dont be swayed so easily by his opinion.
He doesnt want that.
He wants you to have your own opinions and thoughts and perspective.
He wants someone who is going to make him see something differently.
Thats how you grow and learn together.
Someone who takes care of themselves.
Financially
Having a job is attractive.
Saving money and having a plan is attractive.
Paying your bills is attractive.
Someone who has goals in the future and doesnt live for today is attractive.
Having your life in order is attractive.
Never stop wanting to be better.
When you challenge yourself mentally youll attract someone who cares about making those same pop in of strides.
When you love yourself it shows.
When you are insecure that shows too.
Workout not as punishment but because you deserve to be happy and healthy and your best self.
Dont lose weight to be in a relationship.
Dont change because you think that will be some major factor.
Someone who looks towards the future and doesnt dwell in the past.
Everyone has gotten hurt in the past.
The pain you feel is no different even if youve gotten hurt more.
The difference is in how we all carry it and how we feel about it.
A lot of people have trust issues.
Sometimes we project that same outcome we fear.
If he thinks hes responsible for healing you thats going to feel like a lot.
Someone who doesnt speak badly of others.
Hes paying attention to how you speak of others.
Because those things matter.
A healthy relationship is one where two people will talk more about things and less about people around them.
Its about meeting someone and that person pushing you to become someone you cant be alone.
We all want that life-changing love that makes us believe in something again.
But to get there it starts with improving the relationship we have with ourself.
