Time doesnt heal all woundsaccepting your circumstances and processing responsibility for your actions does.
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Updated 5 months ago,November 18, 2024
1.You cannot make someone feel something they dont.
You cannot force them to have an emotion that they simply do not carry.
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2.You know exactly how you feel about someone.
3.Pay attention to who truly sees you and listen to them.
Theyll help you grow.
4.Time doesnt heal all woundsaccepting your circumstances and processing responsibility for your actions does.
Time is just the icing on the cake.
By forgiving them and deciding to move forward, youre allowing the slate to be wiped clean.
6.There are some people in your life that can come back and find a new space to exist in.
There are also some people that should never do this.
Be cautious of who you allow in and when.
7.Some people have a capacity to how much they can care and what that might look like.
8.Though rules and expectations (i.e.
boundaries) are incredibly beneficial inmostscenarios, sometimes its best to just let things develop as they do.
Dont limit what you havent even begun to explore yet.
9.Its okay if you still love them, even if you wish you didnt.
You might feel that way for a very long time.
It is what it is.
10.People dont change, but they do grow up.
They learn, they process, and they adjust.
Its okay to be curious about what that looks like for them.
11.It will never be what it was again, much as you wish it would be.
But that doesnt mean it cant be a good thing now, even if it has to look different.
Whatever you keep shoving down because you think you’re gonna wanna, let it rise.
Let it take you.
Let it teach you something.
13.You are ultimately in charge of what happens to you.
Even if someone does something bad, everything after that is still your responsibility.
Quit using their mistake as an excuse for your poor behavior.
14.Above anything else, have grace for your process, your feelings, and your energy.
Healing and loving and growing is toughbe kind to yourself through all of it.
