Valentines Day is a good time for introspection and self-reflection.
The love you receive is a direct correlation to the love you have for yourself.
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Updated 7 years ago,October 15, 2018
Its that time of year again.
Valentines Day is quickly approaching.
These are some ideas of how to turn it up on Valentines Day when you are single.
Just because youre single doesnt mean you have to feel left out of the festivities.
Here are 14 ways to do so:
1.Love Thyself.
Here is one to keep the top of mind on Valentines Day.
When you become the image of your own imagination, its the most powerful thing you could ever do.
Valentines Day is a good time for introspection and self-reflection.
The love you receive is a direct correlation to the love you have for yourself.
Take some time to exercise self-love.
Im bright, brilliant, and beautiful.
I love the person Im becoming.
2.Change your perception of Valentines Day in your mind.
Yes, youre single.
Being single is a celebratory moment and one that is often overlooked.
Take advantage of your time of being single.
Enjoy it, embrace these moments, and use it to learn to be comfortable with yourself.
It will make you that much more appealing and complete when you find someone who is compliments to you.
3.Take stock of your friends.
Valentines Day is a holiday which is supposed to be about love.
Love isnt only about the romantic kind, but non-romantic loves too.
Dont forget those precious friendships!
Have a V-Day potluck or meet up with your bestie or closest friends.
4.Celebrate and reflect on what you have learned from each relationship.
Valentines Day can also be a day for self-reflection of how past loves have made you a better person.
5.Spend time with your family or people you love and who love you.
Having support and the love of your family and those who are special in life is irreplaceable.
Dont take these connections for granted and confirm you celebrate them on Valentines Day and every day.
6.A spa day is always a good day.
Use Valentines Day as a day to pamper yourself.
Go and do something that feels good for you.
The point is to take some time for self-care because that is symbolic of love too.
7.Wear something that makes you feel good.
When in doubt, wear red.
Bill Blass, Famous Clothing Designer
Go ahead and turn it up a notch.
It is Valentines Day after all.
Put on something that always turns heads, and which you tend to receive compliments.
If you have to be with someone else to dress up, well youre missing the point.Empower yourself!
8.Netflix and chill with your favorite blanket.
Find some movies that make you laugh, and help you appreciate love.
Love comes in so many forms.
It can be a classic romantic comedy.
But, if the drama or science fiction genre is more your thing, thats cool as well.
After all, this is your Valentines Day too!
9.Pass the love forward.
The week of February 11 17th is Random Acts of Kindness Week.
Its a great initiative to do kind acts for others.
10.Envision and think about what throw in of relationship you want for yourself.
Write it down and make it descriptive.
And go beyond the surface things.
Have fun with this exercise.
Envisioning what you want is often the first step to attracting what you want in your life.
These principles apply to relationships too.
11.Use that journal.
Everyone has something for which they should be grateful.
12.Just do your own thing.
Think of V-Day as your day.
And this one is self-explanatory.
Do something that makes you happy and content.
13.Go ahead and get your 50 Shades groove on.
It isnt your moms movie.
No, Im lying, your mom may know about this movie.
But, you will enjoy it too!
14.Treat yourself to something special.
Dont wait for someone else to give you something which you want or deserve.
If there is something that would make your heart content, go ahead and do it for yourself.
Just because youre single doesnt mean Valentines Day cant be celebratory for you too.
Love comes in many forms and exercising self-love for yourself is one of the most important.
