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Updated 1 year ago,April 3, 2024

1.

He went to his ex gfs house after I wouldnt have sex with him…

He, my best friend, his friend, and myself came back to my place after the bar.

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God & Man

We started fooling around in the other room and he wanted to have sex.

I wasnt ready and told him that I was still a virgin.

He like freaked out.

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Stood up and left pretty much immediately.

Later I found out he went to his ex girlfriends right after leaving mine.

Needless to say, Ifelt like shitafter.

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God & Man

Molly, 25

2.

I wasnt invited to the party.

Rachael, 27

3.

Chrissy, 30

4.

I asked him if my age mattered he said it didnt…

He dumped me 7 months later.

The reason he used: our age difference.

Jane, 26

5.

Someone I had casually dated in college begged me for one more chance.

I told him it wasnt a good idea given the relationship and how we ended things.

(Honestly I didnt even end it myself.

Apprehensive he convinced me to go on just one date.

We lived pretty far away at this point in our lives post graduation.

I said I have a wedding by him and I get a plus one would you like to go.

He said yes but first he wants to take me on a real date the night before.

We went to an Art Museum.

(I hate art but I had to give him points for trying.)

Went to Dave and Busters.

At this point I didnt touch my wallet at all just to test him.

I got probably a little too drunk and fell asleep on his couch before anything went down.

(Thank you Moscato) I woke up and he was in his room real pissed at me.

I asked are you coming to the wedding?

Have fun at the wedding alone.'

Alexa, 26

6.

I helped one of my friends get over his breakup and we ended up getting really close really fast.

They think were the ones together.

Valerie, 24

7.

I waited to have sex with him, and he ended up ghosting me anyway.

I went on about 4 dates with him which spanned about 4 weeks.

He seemed really cool.

We had sex that night and what do ya know, he ghosts me after.

I texted him the next morning, nothing.

A week later, nothing.

Never heard from him again.

Nia, 25

8.

My cousins best friend…

Im really close with my cousin.

We basically grew up like brother and sister.

While my cousin was asleep he climbed over to my couch and started kissing me.

He was fine with that.

As time passed every time we hung out hed always make a move.

It got to the point where I asked him Wtf are we doing here?

and he shushed me and said lets text about this later.

I just dont think Im ready for a relationship right now.

If I had a fucking dime for every time Ive heard that, but seriously?!

From the kid who has known me since childhood, and is my cousins best friend, so fucked.

Lauren, 27

9.

He asked me to come over and make YouTube videos…

So once there was this guy who I talked to on again and off again.

Farrah, 25

10.

I had the biggest crush on my brothers best friend…

He was the cool older guy of my dreams.

I couldnt believe it we were FINALLY going on a date after all these years.

He picked me up from my parents house and we went out to lunch(?)

and hooked up at his place after.

He never called me again.

Anna, 29

11.

I honestly wouldve been his girlfriend if he wanted me to be, but I went along with it.

I reached out and never heard from him the entire summer.

Steph, 23

12.

We went to a very cool party at some rich dudes loft in Soho.

Since I reallllllly liked him and trusted that he was a quality human, I wasnt TOO worried.

In fact, I figured wed one day laugh at our recklessness.

You know, on our six month anniversary, maybe?

Unfortunately, I didnt hear from him for an entire week after we hooked up.

When he finally reached out, it was to ask whether or not Id been tested for STDs recently.

A fair question, maybe.

But it all felt pretty rude at the time.

Melanie, 34

13.

I dropped his action figure…

I ACCIDENTALLY dropped one when I picked it up, and he freaked the fuck out.

He said I scratched it and immediately told me to leave.

I apologized and he opened his bedroom door and gestured me out, no words.

Stacey, 25

14.

He promised me a concert and then just never answered…

I went to high school with him.

I hadnt talked to him all of college, or even after.

About one year post-grad I got an awesome writing gig.

I give him my number, we start texting day and night for like 2 weeks.

He asks if Id like to hangout and because we were vibing so well I said sure.

He kissed me goodbye and I didnt hear from him for about 3 days.

So I texted him.

I texted him the day of the concert, still no response.

He hasnt talked to me since.