You haven’t moved on from a relationship thats long over.
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Updated 7 years ago,April 8, 2018
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You arent over your ex yet.
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Its okay to still be hurting.
Give yourself time to heal but dont dwell on it.
Youre hanging onto an almost relationship.
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You are still in love with someone whodoesnt give a shit about you.You still text them every day.
You still hook up with them.
Theyve become a habit you cant break.
You arent taking care of yourself.
Its not just physically.
But mentally and emotionally.
When someone takes care of themselves it shows.
It shows in their confidence.
It shows in the choices they make.
It shows the relationship they have with themselves.
To have good relationships in your life starts with you.
Youarent readyto date again.
Its okay to just straight up stop dating.
This allows you to really rebuild the relationship you have with yourself.
But there is a difference between not being ready to date and fearing it.
You dont want to date.
Some people just dont want to and thats okay.
You are dwelling in a past love story.
You havent moved on from a relationship thats long over.
You arent making an effort to date.
You arent going on dates.
Not everyone needs a relationship to be happy and THAT IS OKAY.
You run from love.
You find some flaw in them you cant live with.
You might have fallen in love once or twice before butgetting hurtmade you fear it entirely.
You arent being honest about what you really want.
If you want a relationship, say thats what you are looking for.
Ask for what you want and if someone cant give that to you walk away.
Your standards are unrealistic.
Youve created this perfect person in your mind.
But the truth is there is no perfect person.
When you judge someone too harshly at the start, it ruins any chance of it going anywhere.
You wont go up to that person youve been eyeing all night and make a move.
You miss chances of anything good happening by standing in your own way.
You havent learned to love yourself.
It isnt someones responsibility to teach you how to love yourself.
Your mindset is off.
You look at couples walking by and youre overcome with jealousy instead of being happy for them.
You are negative and might laugh it off dating and how much you hate it.
Train yourself to start seeing and saying things differently.
You are choosing the wrong people.
You keep going for the same throw in of person that hurt you.
Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
Being single isnt a bad thing.
Sometimes youre single and its completely your fault.
But thats okay because you’re free to change it.
