When your grandmother knows what Tinder is, you know its made it.
If you say inner beauty, that is a lie.
Here are three things people look in their matches-attractiveness, personality and general compatibility- usually in that order.
New Girl
Yes, this is a superficial world, and let us be honest with ourselves and admit it.
What each person finds attractive is subjective, but initial physical attraction has to be there.
First of all, you have to start with a good profile.
You reap what you sow.
Take the time to complete your profile.
Wouldnt you like to see all this information in your matches too?
New Girl
Way more enticing than LA>CHI>NY.
Check your grammar and your spelling.
We all have a past and we have always had some drama in our lives.
Dont put negatives statements like got dumped by my ex, so here I am!
or I need to meet someone before my eggs die at 30.
Balance your confidence with modesty.
Show off your school and/or job without being a narcissist.
Humor is always a plus, but try not to incorporate topics such as race, religion and politics.
As a primary picture, choose a good headshot so people can see your whole face.
Group pictures are acceptable, but keep them last- do not use that as your primary picture.
You do not want their first thought to be-which one?
Out of curiosity- how many men have been to Machu Picchu or posed with a tiger?
How many girls pout?
Dont overlook your own standards or integrity in such situations, are the wise words of psychotherapist Sindee Gozansky.
Think about this when you swipe, and swipe as many or less as you would like.
Always have respect for yourself so your match knows that.
Lowering your standards to kindly someone else will only leave you disappointed.
It will give you option to go back in case you swiped left when you meant to do right.
you could super like five people instead of one in a day.
Honestly, I find the super like button a little strange and a bit creepy.
This does not apply to EVERYONE but most of the time it does.
So play it right.
Not every person on Tinder is there to ruin your life.
