Sometimes the most powerful thing you might say is absolutely nothing at all.
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Updated 4 years ago,March 4, 2021
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But you are going to fall on your ass and makesomany mistakes.
Vince Perraud
Youre going to hurt people.
Youre going to be the reason why someone feels broken.
And some of those people whove hurt you?
Theyre not actually the villain.Even when youre reeling and pointing the finger feels just so…right.
Sometimes when youre hurt its not actually anyones fault.
Its simply a reaction.
Vince Perraud
And blaming people for your reaction while human, isnt very mature.
But that doesnt have to be the case.
The love of your life might be a career or a hobby or something else entirely.
Stop believing that it has to be a relationship, because it doesnt.
Burning bridges will not actually light your wayBut it will give you a reputation.
And only people like Taylor Swift will realistically profit off of behavior like that.
That you refuse to move on.
That acceptance isnt a word youve implemented into your life.
And it means youre more interested in replaying the past than you are in moving forward.
Youve gossiped, theyve gossiped, it doesnt have to feel like the end of the world.
It feels like lecturing them or delivering a killer one-liner will lift that weight thats on your shoulders.
But sometimes theres more power in saying nothing.
Because even if its not true, it gives the impression that you have nothing to say.
And that can send more of a message than a big speech ever will.
Listening comes from patience, and giving it will help you to get the reaction you actually want.
But you arent entitled to it as frustrating as that is to understand.
You dont deserve anything from anyone.
Things end.Everything has an ending.
You just have to figure out how to deal with them and be okay.
