She doesnt blame you or anyone else for the things shes done wrong or the choices shes made.
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Updated 7 years ago,June 26, 2018
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If she wears her heart on her sleeve.
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Its not an easy thing to do, especially now.
Everyone hides what they feel behind screens and never says what they mean.
But if shes blunt and doesnt hold back how she feels, see the value in someone like that.
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Shes the girl who beats to her own drum.
She makes up her own.
Saying things she shouldnt, she says it, anyway.
Owning the shit out of who she is even if its flawed and full of mistakes takes confidence.
To stand out in a world where everyone tells you to fit it, its never been her style.
If shes well read.
Girls who read know the importance of knowledge.
They know to learn more and challenge yourself comes in the what you read.
When you ask her whats she reading now, the answer is never nothing.
If shes gone through something difficult.
The best girls are the ones who havent had it easy.
The ones who have been forced to overcome things and situations that they didnt choose.
Its that strength that will help you overcome things in your own life.
If shes passionate about something.
When you ask her what she does, she doesnt respond just with a job title.
She responds with the things she cares about.
Maybe its a hobby.
Maybe its an organization.
Whatever it is, you see her eyes light up when she talks about it.
If she has goals.
Whatever choice you make in your life, shes got your back.
Shes in your corner.
If she challenges you.
The right girl will be the one who pushes you.
The one who sees your potential.
She builds you up with kindness and compliments until you start seeing yourself through her eyes.
If she owns up to her mistakes.
She doesnt blame you or anyone else for the things shes done wrong or the choices shes made.
She tries to make it right and she moves on.
Healthy people are the ones who learn from their mistakes instead of dwelling on them.
If she forgives you, for yours.
She doesnt bring up something wrong youve done from months before.
She doesnt blackmail you or make you feel bad.
You make a mistake.
You each work to fix it and as a result, the relationship becomes stronger.
If she has good intentions.
Strong women dont tear others down to gain their power.
The best girls are the ones who dont have reasons to lie.
Everything about her is brutally honest that you trust her with your greatest secrets.
If shes willing to change to improve.
She knows the importance of constantly improving.
If she accepts your flaws and shortcomings.
She knows you arent perfect but even if she could change anything about you, she wouldnt.
If she isnt afraid to love you.
She doesnt let her past experiences interfere with her current relationship.
She knows everyone deserves a fair shot.
