Does he bad mouth every single one of his exes?
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Updated 7 years ago,November 9, 2017
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How he treats his mother or woman figures in life.
Warren Wong
How he treats those doing a service for him.
Pay close attention to that.
How he talks about others.
Warren Wong
Does he talk positively or negatively about others?
Does he gossip and spread rumors?
Or does he not say anything if its unkind.
Stick with the ones who keep negative opinions they might have to themselves.
How he talks about himself.
Does he brag and have an ego?
Or is he humble and doesnt think much of the things he does.
Stick with the oneswho are humble.
The punch in of friends he has.
Who are the people hes choosing to surround himself with?
What is his best friend like?
If his best friend is a pompous asshole you have to wonder why he would choose someone like that.
If he keeps his word.
Dont fall for every excuse he can come up with when he doesnt follow through.
Consistency to how he treats you.
He doesnt just treat you well in the beginning and it fades out.
He treats you well all the time.
Showing you that he respects you is the most important thing in the world to him.
How he handles confrontation.
Does he go silent?
Does he stay mad?
Does he lose it?
Does he use it against you in the future?
Or does he talk about it with you?
Then forgive you if youre wrong.
And move on never bringing it up again.
How he speaks of his exes.
Does he bad mouth every single one of them?
If he does, there is a chance that could be you one day.
Or does he still have a lot of respect for the people he dated and invested time into?
Stick with the guys who still speak kindly of their ex.
He apologizes when hes wrong.
When hes wrong he owns up to it and tries to make it right.
He doesnt play games.
Hes honest, upfront and forward.
When it comes to pursuing you, he lays it out on the table what he has to offer.
He doesnt try and play some texting game of delayed responses or blowing up your newsfeed.
If he likes you, youre never gonna have to wonder it.
He takes things slow.
He doesnt try and sleep with you right off the bat.
Because the truth is hes not looking for someone like that.
He can tell exactly what his goals are.
You ask him about the future and its not an ambiguous response of not knowing.
He knows exactly where he wants to be and how he can get there.
He works hard and hes looking for someone who can match his ambition.
He remembers the things you tell him.
Its the little details he makes a point to remember.
Hes everything you could want someone to be.
Whatever your definition of what the perfect person was, suddenly got replaced with all the qualities he has.
Hes not perfect and he has his shortcoming.
But hes everything you need someone to be.
